K so I told a girl that I like her over myspace(well i didnt actually say it but i said some stuff) and she replied saying "I do not know...I dont really know you." Ive known her about a month ago, we dont really talk much but we had a convo or two, and I only see her on the bus b4 and after school. So my question is, what is that supposed to mean? Is that a way of saying no? Is she saying that she would like to get to know me better, or what? Could that be good?
P.S. - exact quote = I do not know. The truth is, I do not really know you...
2007-04-24 16:10:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is attracted to you in some ways but she is not very sure if it is proper to start a relationship. If you think you like her, may be you can let her know more about you.
2007-04-24 16:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I think she is saying that she really does not know you well enough to say she likes you and that you don't know her well enough to really like her.
I think you sort of made a little bit of a impression on her and she's thinking something along the lines of "how the hell can he like someone he doesn't know." In girl land, that's not good. Try talking to her tomorrow and see how she acts towards you. Let her lead the chat and pick up on her vibe. If she is all upbeat and happy to talk, then you know she is interested in getting to know you better. If she is a little stand-offish, don't bug her with petty talk. Let her be and maybe she'll warm up to getting to know you better through myspace or in person later down the line.
Good luck.
2007-04-24 16:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by msbluemd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not overly positive, to be completely honest. It's probably a nice way of saying she's not that interested right now. It's possible she may become interested later, but for now, I would continue talking to her and get to know her. If you find she is backing off, it's probably because she really doesn't feel the same way. Best of luck to you, anyway!
2007-04-24 16:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lineya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not feel the same way you feel about her, but give it time, charm her but don't push it. If you can see her more often than on the bus try to. Make casual conversation, and if you see she starts to loosen up a bit more try asking again, but wait a few more months.
2007-04-24 16:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by andrea c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for her to respond to your myspace...what is she referring to? You said you told on your myspace that you liked this girl and you said a bunch of other 'stuff'..did you somewhere in your myspace type 'i like her but not sure if she likes me?"..if so, then that could mean why she replied "i do not know..the truth is..i do not really know you.
There's your opportunity to say "would you Like to get to know me?"
then you will know for sure if she does or doesn't.
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2016-10-18 03:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of a polite way of saying no. I would probably back off a little and see if she initiates any contact with you. If so, you still have a chance of her getting to know you better.
Good Luck
2007-04-24 16:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would be open to the idea of getting to know you. Then she won't be able to use the excuse of not knowing you because you are willing to get to know her and have her get to know you. You should get a better reply out of her that way.
2007-04-24 16:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by JNCDGYA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read it exactly as she said it. She doesn't really know you..nothing can happen until then. Become friends with her and get comfortable being around her. You need a strong frienship before you'll have anything further happen.
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2007-04-24 16:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by heath e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe both of your signals got crossed. Explain to her what you're trying to do, and then find out exactly what she meant by her statement. The main thing is to get come clarity...see what happens after that.
2007-04-24 16:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mendi W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋