Did I handle the situation wrong?

Question

I went to my boyfriends house w/ my friend earlier, and when I got there the girl who f*cked my sisters bf (ex bf now) was sitting in a car in his drive way. he lives with his dad & i guess she was there with a friend of the dad, and everyone was inside, but i told her she was a little f*cking skank. then when my bf came out I told him that the little slutty b*tch shouldn't be there, and as i was about to drive away i pulled up to her car and I said never to come back, she doesn't need to be there, and if i see her slutty a$$ around again I'm going to kick her a$$ and that's a warning. I guess the lady she was with tried "tatteling" to my bf after she got back in the car w/ the slut, he doesn't care, but it might cause some controversy in the neighborhood now. (she lives down the road and that was a family friend of theirs) did i handle the situation wrong and over react? oh and when she had sex with my sisters ex bf it was in my bedroom, while my sister was asleep in the other room...

Answer 1

Yea seems that there is a lot of blame to be thrown around her and this poor, insecure, lost, little, kid is getting the blunt of your blows. For one what was up with the bf fing her in your room? I mean how does that happen without you are your sister putting a stop to it? Was it just because he is that nice of a guy,jk? She apparently isn't all that bright, but its this guy thats really to blame for his shameless, arrogant, uncaring, attempt to satisfy his ego problems! She is just a freck looking for a lay, so that I'm guessing hopfully she'll find love, if not it was an attempt to fix her own ego problems.... hmmm could of been a match made in heaven really,but it was that boy who you guys need to expect more from and since he is an ex now and can't spread his dumbbutt ways I say its over just let her be, yea she wasn't a very mature or clever cat, but the boyfriend is the one who used that to his advantage. Besides kicking her butt isn't going to keep her from doing it again, now the boyfriend thou..... I mean ex-boyfriend, he could use a good verbal beating.....

Answer 2

Good for you! Now, if the child had been just acting goofy, like kids can do, that's one thing. But making fun of someone is unacceptable. Someday he'll make fun of the wrong person and get his a** kicked for it. IOn a similar note, I had a kid in front of me stop at the top of an escalator once, and there were a lot of people behind him. His mom was watching him and laughing at people tripping. When I got to the top and started to fall, I pushed the little brat out of my way to keep from falling backwards. She glared at me and I glared right back, and mentioned that maybe her son should move before someone got hurt. Just because someone has a child doesn't mean they know how to be a parent!