Love will it come to me?

Question

The girl I like is going out with one of my bestfriends. He knows I like her and asked her out. She said yes and went out with him. He really like her, and her friends think she just got lonely. She knows I lkie her and I asked her out before him. She sees me as a friend, but she takes a special confidence in me. We talk about things I do not think she talks about with anyone. Could she really like this guy. He is my friend and I do not want to hurt her. I have had so much trouble, I cannot stop thinking about her. Should I move on. I just feel like I can't. She is the first girl to even make me cry. I feel terriable without her. I even haven't gone out with her but I see her as an angel. What do I do.

Answer 1

Don't right her as being to perfect buddy, be real! But thats not the point, tell her, understand, and think about this; Friends can become great lovers, lovers rarly ever become friends. Sex doesn't ruin relationship, people not growing together ruins relationships. With that said get over this friends bs, tell her that its all crap, the fact is behind every deep and meaningful relationship is a friendship!!!! Don't make the same mistakes your fellow man do, boys become best friends that become brothers the same for females. With different sexes, they well grow into lovers, that is if the two are mature enough. It isn't the friendship thats the problem its your guys maturity. Don't get lost behind this idea of romantic love, and that one stranger out there for you. Thats a one-and-a-million chance, but making friends into lovers that we can all do.... it was why way back in the "the old dayz", before marriage was destroied by social bs, that the two indivdiuals actually grew up together..... don't let mtv destroy what you guys could make.... just understand the reason they say not to do that is that most people are not mature enough to grow with the relationship.... its hard, long road and you'll have to break, grow, and learn....