My brother yells at me, makes fun of me, ticks me off, does things because I told him not to, starts to do things I love and says he did it because he knew I would hate it, shows off, puts me down in front of people(like my friends), winks at me when mom tells him he can do something that she said I couldn't, hits me for no reason, says things about my acne in front of people because he knows I am self-concsious about it, says he wants to kill me, rips my artwork that I say I am proud of, steals my ideas and gets compliments, gets into things I like to make me mad (am I starting over?) and does little annoying things for no reason.
I don't like it. I'm eleven, and I know I'm sensetive. I cry about it sometimes. I don't like it. Not one bit. When I tell him to please stop, he won't. I tell mom and dad and they make him say sorry. I say its okay, but he still does it again and again. I don't like it at all. Please help because I'm running out of characters to work with? Please &thank
2007-04-24 13:41:01 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some of it is because he wants all of your time and attention on him.Part of it is he needs better discipline and just a good old *** whooping to help him grow up and mature more so he realizes what boundaries he can and can not cross.. The rest is due to your parents not wantng to take responsibility of teaching him and punishing him for actions that he should not do.
2007-04-24 13:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... that's what being a sibling is all about. My older sister and I always used to fight. We would quarrel about the stupidest things, and now that I'm a little older, I admit I did things just to make her angry, and just because she told me not to. Now she is in college and we couldn't be any closer...
I would say that your brother really looks up to you. Trust me, if they really hate you, they won't talk to you or give you any attention at all. Even though I sometimes, literally, pulled the hair out of my sister's head, I loved her and thought she was an angel from heaven.
Try to spend more time with him, get to know him, so when he winks at you when he gets permission from his parents to do something, you can stick your tongue out, and actually feel good about it--and him too.
My little and big sisters mess around all the time, and we know we can go so far, because we know that we love each other and bugging the crap out of all of us can't hurt our relation ship... It's that bonding thing... My relation ship with my sisters are the strongest relationships I've ever had.
When I was little I never thought about it, but now I do, and I wish that I would talk with my sister instead of make fun of her to show my love... Time passes by so fast... and we all realize things so slowly.
Really try to get to know your brother, because once you do, you'll love it, and be sad that you didn't before... just like me.
Plus, be thankful you have a brother! I have five sisters, and I've always wanted a little brother !
2007-04-24 13:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by JanetB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like he is doing things that younger siblings normally do. My little sister did those same exact things to me, and she admits to doing them on purpose because she knew it would make me angry.
2007-04-24 14:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kagome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First lock your drawings in a special place.You need to talk with both your parents about how you feel with your brother doing things to you.If he was my son I would know what I want to dowith him.Brothers can be so annoying.
2007-04-24 13:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Sounds like me and my brother when we were about your age... we're the best of friends now.
2007-04-24 13:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by Repunzel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he puts you down in front of your friends then you and your friends should put him down and give him a makeover and dress him up like a girl
2007-04-25 12:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a boy and he is your brother it is there purpose in life to make their sisters life a living hell-o whether you be the big or little sister
2007-04-24 13:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to teach him...he is obviously spoiled...he won't stop it because there are no real consecuenses...make some. you might want a lock on your door, lock cabinets or closets...
2007-04-24 13:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ψ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is just doing that to show love. If he didn't do that you would miss it. trust me he is doing it cause he loves you.
2007-04-24 13:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by christian_girl0821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get on the internet and go to http://www.lemonparty.org.
2007-04-24 13:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋