Can this be true?

Question

i just recently got dumped from the woman of my dreams after a year of being together. she says she loves me but she can never be with me. Every one of her friends say she dumped me bc i was a jerk supposedly but idk how. Everyone else i talk to besides her really good friends r telling me shes a b**** and she was always mean to me. She starting to hang around this kid danny i think just to get me jelous but some ppl told me all girls do this. they go flirt with a bunch of their guy friends infront of u just to make u think they r over u, but when u start to show u dont care they come back sooner or later. I know for a fact tht she loves me. Is this true what they're saying?(and no shes not going to go havign sex with sum other guy or hang out with some other guy shes to heartbroken too she only does it at school when she knows i can see.help?

Answer 1

Yea I can see that arrogant, jerk tendency in you, but also that ***** tendency in here.... ether way I'm not here to critisize your style it isn't all that jerky, but realize buddy that love is a word used to descibe all the feelings we feel for someone, all! So yep she loves you, but unfornatunely the way she left me tells me you guys don't talk or relate at a deeper level then the old I LOVE YOU, YOUR MY WORLD! It does go deeper like her saying that do you, WHY? Why could she never be with you? And why did you let her go that easy? And what does she love about you? Do you know? What exactly do you love about her, her attractivness? I mean are you guys friends at all or was it a classic fing strangers relationship and now all you guys had holdig you together was this ideal of romantic love? Its showing to be the case, I've had my own lover affairs and I'd be darned if they'd get off that easy, without explain to me more of the why! But it sounds like highschool and we tend to show more heart then brains back then, but if you can continue to talk to her, and relate alittle deeper into that head of hers, you can use the fact she feels for you to hopfully create a strong deep meaningful relationship with the friendship at the core.... good luck, just don't use the whole I LOVE YOU thing to your advantage, if you want this to work concentrate on everything outside of that, like purpose, pricipals, ideals, ideology, future, etc, etc.....