I went out with this guy for 4 months then he broke up with me. Now we are just so called "FRIENDS". It doesn't even seem like we broke up. Anyways I still like him I mean come on he was the 1st guy I actually liked. Now he flirts with me all the time and I have asked him back out and asked him if he still likes me and he keeps saying "IDK", so what do I do. Also I like this other guy but I still have feelings for this one guy (I went out with).So should I take a chance with this other guy or wait on my ex to ask me back out. Oh did I mention he is moving over the summer. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-24 12:27:10 · 2 answers · asked by flutely-flute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I am "reading between the lines" right it sounds like you ex is wanting his cake and to eat it too! It seems like he may just be using you to occupy his time until someone he likes more comes along (wanting the whole "friends w/ benefits" thing). You deserve better and need to realize that a boy like that is just using you and isnt respecting you as a person!
I would suggest that you simply stop being that "convienient" girlfriend for your ex and find a new boy of your own! Take a chance on the other boy!! You will probably be a LOT happier and save yourself a LOT of heartache in the long run!
2007-04-24 12:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he tells you he doesnt know he is saying he really is confused and doesnt want to get all serious but likes you still. I would date others and be freinds with him then he will know u want more than a chat friend in name only.He prolly is afraid you wont be any kind of friend or wot your reaction will be if he says hes not gonna be serious becuz he really doesnt know yet ya need time. date others keep him in the picture
2007-04-24 19:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋