My mom doesn't know the truth what happened and I am afaid to tell her because then she will worry about me more. How do I tell her when I know it will hurt her?
2007-04-24 12:11:13 · 15 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sammy, honey, the truth will hurt!! U see, if you hide the truth from her....... that "secret" of yours, will be with you for the rest of your life if you choose not to say anything! So Just know when you tell her the truth... just remeber when you get older you'll be glad you did it. and you'l you wont have the feeling of guilt inside you! Just get it over with. and if its going to hurt her, just let her know your willing to build back a steady relationship whith her, mabey it has to do with trust or ANYTHING. Just let her know how you fell. I know that will be a little hard to do but, trust me i've been thru your same problem and it's best to just get it over with! K??? hope i helepd!!!
2007-04-24 12:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problem needs medical attention, or you need help dealing with it you should tell your mom honestly. Just talk to her. Don't worry about her feelings if there is a possibility that you might be sick or hurt in some way. The most important thing to her will be your health and safety.
On the other hand, if you just want to get rid of your guilt because you did something that was wrong or against your Mom's rules....straighten up and don't tell her.
So it all goes to motive for the telling. Some secrets are best kept to yourself. Others, that involve the health and well-being of others should be told. Guess you have some thinking to do....
2007-04-24 12:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always tell your mother the truth. Let her know you were afraid to tell her but you just can't keep if from her any more. Be live me if you don't when she is gone and you think about her you will remember every thing that you did wrong. Your mother loves you no matter what.
2007-04-24 12:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better for her to know the truth then to be lied too, She will be twice as hurt if he knows you didn't trust her enough to tell her the truth.
Don't spare her and think your doing it for her , because she will tell you that herself when she find out that yo should have trusted in her.
2007-04-24 12:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always go by the quote 'this too shall pass" I remember when I was scared to tell my mom I lost my virginity, but i knew it was impotant to tell her. She was upset, but I mean, thats my mom and she loves me. Im just saying, your mom has been hurt before, and Im quite sure, what youre about to tell her, she was once afraid to tell her mother. So she will be hurt for a while, but this too shall pass
2007-04-24 12:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by JazzyWazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of you may desire to tell your mom yet i think of you may desire to communicate on your dad and tell him you experience uncomfortable retaining a secret out of your mom, notwithstanding if that's "danger unfastened" and in some unspecified time interior the destiny perhaps you all might desire to sit down down at the same time, or bypass to family counseling. bc if not something adjustments you're in all probability going to maintain finding your self in those circumstances (for the reason which you do not sound such as you're quitting appearing every time quickly) good success :)
2016-10-30 05:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like to have really close relationship with your mother then I recommend to just come out with it and tell her. That is your mother and if it is something that is really traumatic then she needs to know. You don't know that if the information that you are with holding might hinder you in the future. Good Luck!!
2007-04-24 12:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by alexbeauty333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she needs to know the truth then just tell her regardless of the consequences.
2007-04-24 13:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom has big shoulders and it will hurt her but the bond that a mother has with her children is something that is more powerful than any hurt can do so trust in her to be strong.
2007-04-24 12:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is abusive and you feel she could help I would tell her. Your mother deserves the truth if it is something that involves her if it doesn't then try to be mature and work it out.
2007-04-24 12:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋