i been knowing these girl some what threw high skool before i got transfer but we talk off and on..... but for the last 3 years i been having a secret crush on her, but when i herd that she brook up with her boy friend of 2 years knowing that guy was her fist love.... and after she told me it was over between them.... should i or should not say nothing
2007-04-24 11:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by leo c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her. she might just have the same feelings for you. or she might begin to get the same feelings. Good Luck!
2007-04-24 11:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud ask her out but id b careful about saying u had a crush on her for the last 3 years as she might think u r sum kind of stalker. obviously it depends on the girl, she may b more laid back than some and not mind but i reckon most girls wud find it a little strange. ask her out, get to know her a bit first and then if u still feel u really need to tell her, just say u had fancied her for a while, u cud say it as a compliment. but id leave out the 3 years and wudnt say exactly how long u have fancied her for cos it might scare her off.
2007-04-24 11:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie-woozie! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a bad thing to tell the girl you like that you have a crush on her. even if she is with some one as long as she isn't married or in a serious relationship it can't hurt anything. but if she is committed you can at least also let her know you are willing to be friends.
2007-04-24 11:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by awnrey123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a while. after she gets over it. then it's ok. don't tell her that you had a crush on her for 3 years because it would be kind of awkward for her.
2007-04-24 11:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should say sumthin but, dont b like "i had a secret crush on u" jus b like " i hav liked u for a while now anad u didnt kno it, and tell her y u like her, and then jus b like "that felt gd to tell u that ", and then b like "ok, since i jus totallu weirded u out, i'll jus talk to u l8r" and then jus go
2007-04-24 11:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you should definitely say something. you never know... she might like you too! i would recommend waiting a couple weeks, though, because she will prolly want some time to get over her last relationship. good luck!
2007-04-24 11:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE SIGNS!!!!
EXAMPLE:She says I wish I can go to the beach
YOU SAY:Hey maybe I can take you some day.
EXAMPLE
YOU SAY:You look nice today
SHE'll think:Hey HE noticed I look good....
Her mind will wonder....lol
2007-04-24 11:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. just be really nice4 to her. She's probably not ready to take on another realationship.
2007-04-24 11:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by LivexYourxLifex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say something, and it's not dumb that you have a secret crush on her it's okay
2007-04-24 11:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and tell her if she likes you to you will be a lot happy and you might make her happer as well so go for it.
2007-04-24 11:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋