ok i just got home from school. i am dating this guy and at the end of the day when I was walking toward the backgate to get picked up I saw him just sitting at a table and he was all hunched over and he looked angry and sad at the same time. then everyone ran up to me and said, "go comfort your boyfriend." what do i say to him, do i go "whats wrong, are you ok?" and stuff? everyone was bugging me so I just walked away. but what do i say???
2007-04-24 11:24:45 · 11 answers · asked by C♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know that you are there,just don't push him to tell you whats wrong. Say hey You know I'm here if you ever need to talk,hug him. That kind of stuff
And who ever said that you are a bad girlfriend is wrong!
2007-05-02 11:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Moi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can the guy cheat and you have a black baby. The baby came out of your body so it had to be you who cheated. Maybe your gay then I'm not even sure what happened. But if your a girl and there was a black guy involved, even with protection it still could have been the black guys baby. Portection doesnt always work you know.
2016-05-17 23:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by annis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him and ask how are you ? Tell him you are on your way home but, are near if he needs you.
He will tell you later about his problem. Ask him if you handled things OK. Did he want to be alone in these situations or would he have preferred a hug and your presence?
Next time you can act accordingly and be closer bonded.
2007-05-02 04:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by radar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bug him cause he might get mad...cause i bet everyone was asking what was wrong. Just call him or go to his house and say, "Im not gonna ask you whats wrong, just know that if you wanna talk im here..and asssure that you will always be there" he might not wanna talk about it but it will mean alot that you are there. Let him come to you after he calms down.
2007-04-24 11:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have walked away. You don't really need to say anything, just being there is comforting.
You could have sat beside him and held his hand, as simple as that.
He will open up if he wants to talk, but don't nag him okay.
Good Luck!
2007-05-02 10:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Justina P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a hug and a quick kiss on the cheek and a smile
2007-04-24 11:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by lovesunflowers78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he knows you're there for him, and give him a kiss, and a chance to tell you what the problem is. but don't bother him about it. just be there for him, that alone will help a lot.
2007-04-24 11:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should have went up to him and been like hey babe what's wrong and if he wuz like nothin than u shoulda given him a hug or something... some kind of comrfort...
2007-05-02 10:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pr!nc355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are a bad girlfriend.
The time to comfort him was then, not now. Do him a favor and let him go, he needs someone better than you.
2007-04-24 11:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well first off you say.. "whats wrong honey, " and when he tells you what is wrong LISTEN!! and be there for him...don't be selfish and if he tells you what is wrong you are lucky cause boys hid there feelings...DON'T EVER WALK AWAY!
2007-05-02 11:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by rhettatheroo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋