If u were sexually abused by older girls but they were being abused by an older man can u report them if not how do u deal with the demons?
2007-04-24 11:00:57 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle G 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
yes you can report them abuse is abuse no matter what has happened to the other person in the first place. report her now so you can get the help and support you need to get over it all.
2007-04-24 11:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most people are embarrassed to speak of sexual abuse. It is so personal, sometimes adults' reaction will be anger or fear. You can live through it though - this is not the end of the world. It is something that no one has a right to do to you. When you find a counselor to work with you weekly, you can begin to heal emotionally. Some of your negative feelings or emotions will always be there, but you can mostly heal.
This is something you need to address for yourself and your own healing and future life as an adult. You need to tell an adult in a position of authority -- school counselor, teacher, nurse, your Dr.,minister, a counselor or police or children's protective services/ Social Services. Social Services is there for your protection, and will intervene to see that you are safe.
Given the circumstances, they will likely also look into the safety of the older girls too. But, don't worry about that. You need to do the RIGHT THING to make sure this does not happen to you or anyone else again. This is a secret that needs to be broken.
Dealing with the demons - when you are feeling particularly upset and have no one to talk to - call the Rape-Crisis Hotline. Someone there will help you in that moment, and possibly have some resources of where you can go to get help. Getting counseling can be the best thing for you.
2007-04-24 18:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is your body don't let anyone take it and use it for their pleasure if they have been abused then they should no how it feels tell them to stop abusing you and report the man that is abusing them sexually because it is messing up their mind and that isn't good...Do what you got to do and YES you can report them talk to them first but don't let them know that you will report them...
2007-04-24 18:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all How old are you? Second of all if you are young, can you go to your parents, or a Parent? Third of all if, you are an adult(over 18) go talk to a counselor to talk about it. Yes Sexual Abuse is Wrong, and yes it hurts you physically and emotionally, and it is embarassing to talk about. And it draws attention to your self. But you deserve to be heard,. Please talk to someone you trust, than decide what is best for you.
2007-04-25 01:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by yummymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definitely should report them, even if they have been abused before, doesn't mean they can abuse you.
2007-04-24 19:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...I would talk to someone dear to you and/or file a police report
2007-04-24 18:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by 1337haxor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report them, justice should take place to avoid this happen to other and you will be satisfied.
2007-04-24 18:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should report them!!!! put them in jail! i was a victim to til i turned him in! you should to! dont wait!!
2007-04-24 18:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by james b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋