is he still holding on or what? its long but i really need your advice?

Question

so i went out with this guy a long time ago and we kept in touch and we were very sexual i guess you can say when we werent going out. i thouhgt it was somethign special you know? and like after i gave it up to him we didnt really talk that much after that..and before it happened i gave him one of my hoodies and it was brand new. and he still wears it to this day. and we hiung out last weekend and we kissed every here and there.. and i mean it was good cuz now i know that i am over him.. i mean i still care aboiut him and sh!t. In school all these people will tell him when im standing there...theyll tlel him that they saw him with this girl adn with that girll...and he said im single i can do whatever i want.. i think he said that because i wwas standing there. But what i need to know is if he is holding on or what is happeneing?!!!!!!

Answer 1

ITs a sexual relationship, don't expect much. I mean even you said the conversation stagnant'd after you gave it up to him, that should of told you something about what he really respect'd about you, and no it wasn't between your ears. The problem with sexual relationships is the love is hiden behind the ego, this destories any ability for the two to actual grow together. So learn your lesson, kissing and fing isn't love, its everything you do around that, and how you respect the kissing and the fing.....