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Because they are obsessed with their own pleasure - not their partner's. Also, they don't recognize there is a difference between his pleasure and hers.

If you want something, ask for it. If they do not want to give you what you want, look for someone who will.

2007-04-24 10:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 1 0

There's no one way to please a woman in bed. Each woman is different, or at least there are many different varieties.

I have found many women to be very easy to please in bed. Women I can bring to fruition easily and repeatedly.

Then there are some who take a long time and a lot of work.

Some women like different things and prefer different positions. Some like the pillow underneath. Some don't. Some like a lot of foreplay. Some don't.

Guys, by the way, are not "obsessed with sex." We have a sex drive like everyone does. Our desire for sex is not necessarily obsession.

It's also a bit of a cliche' that all guys want is sex. Look on these boards. Every question about what guys want is answered by dozens of guys saying words to the effect of "love, respect, communication, trust" and of course they throw in sex too, but most guys are saying that it's not the first thing.

Also - I have known A LOT of women who say that after a long time in a relationship guys stop wanting sex as much. We see the sitcom jokes all the time about the middle aged husband who constantly begs his wife for sex, but she's more civilized so she doesn't want it as much (a la King of Queens, According to Jim, Lucky Louie, etc. etc. etc.).

We are more complex than generalizations would have it.

2007-04-24 17:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

you don't sound like you have much exp., I recomend to all men a good read, the name of the book is "the hite report" it is very intersting. you mite as a women try to show the man your with what makes you feel good, not all women are the same, and not all men are the same. But once again people generalize about gender, women have the same problem. for the most part where all on this planet in the dark hopeing we don't fall and kill someone. but back to answer if you can't tell the man/women your with what makes you feel gd the partnership will never work!

2007-04-24 17:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0 0

Hello there, I beg to differ with a couple of answers that you have recieved. Some guys ( like gals) are about themselves, But in my experiece the pleasuring of the one that you are with makes the sex 10x better. If both of the partners felt the need to pleasure one another, look out for a marathon. :)

2007-04-24 17:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by seaking 2 · 0 0

Some do, at least the ones who care about the woman they are with.

2007-04-24 17:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You women who say all men think about are theirselves, are making every man seem that way. If you've met a man like that, you didn't meet a man at all. You met a little boy trapped in a mans body. Not every guy is concerned about his own self. For instance, I'm not that kind of guy. I love to please my g/f!

2007-04-24 17:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because they're not really into sex. They're into getting their rocks off. Hint: the ones who do it a lot are not necessarily the ones who are best at it.

2007-04-24 17:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because all men can really think about is themselfs..... So how could he even think of really pleasing anyone other than himself??

The question should be do they really need a woman to feel pleasure?

2007-04-24 17:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0 1

Men really don't care who or what they are screwing, so long as they get their rocks off. It could be a corpse or a bag of wet cat litter for all that it really matters.

2007-04-24 17:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0 1

it all depends on the guy most are just stupid and can't do anything right but i never really have to worry about this because i'm fine

2007-04-24 18:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Unbound Demon 4 · 0 0

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