Why do people not speak anymore after a break up...especially the person who initiated it...?

Question

My boyfriend broke up with me...i then thought he was cheating and kicked him out...he said he never cheated...he at the least asked a girl out on myspace...i asked him to stay...we both cried...he called the next day...i didnt answer in time...i called back two times...ive not heard from him since...its been 3 weeks now

Answer 1

Relationships are complicated and when both/or one of the parties isn't being completely honest, communication well break down, completely most of the time. It would be a better world if we could, but the fact is sometimes, we lie to ourselves and never know it tell its to late to come back to that person and explain ourselves. Which if we could swallow our pride would be easy on all of us, but in the social struture we have now, sometimes pride is all we have anymore..... sorry it ended that way for you.......