I'm currently a stay-at-home wife, while I wait for a greencard after a recent move from Canada to the USA. My husband is out working all day, and I like to keep busy at home, so that he does not feel that I don't appreciate what he does, and that I simply waste my time around the apartment.
What are some creative ways that you show your husband you've been thinking about him during the day? Things that show you love him when he gets home?
2007-04-24 09:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by emma_darling 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's just the two of us at home, as we don't have children yet.
2007-04-24 09:24:53 · update #1
I would buy the book 101 nights of romance. It is FANTASTIC.
2007-04-24 09:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh! That's my specialty. Now the first thing you can do
1) When he get's home meet him at the door and act like you have not seen him in thirty years just start kissing him and say your so glad he's home.
2) Cook him a really nice meal and run him a warm shower or bath with you in it.
3) When he comes home you can also be on the couch with absolutly nothing on tell him you have been waiting on him
4) Are you can do what every guy dreams of turn the tv on sports channel and don't speak the whole time it's on.
2007-04-24 09:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by unique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 4 years and have stayed at home quiet a bit. I always have dinner on the table for him as soon as he gets home. I also make sure that the house is clean so he doesn't have to come home to a wreck. Do you drink? Have a good bottle of wine at home some nights for you guys to sip on. Make SURE that you always tell him how much you appreciate him and you are thankful for everything he does. If a man feels that he is appreciated and loved, he won't ever have a reason to stray.
2007-04-24 09:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by BamBam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife is a lucky woman, she just doesn't realize that. Most man now a days wants their wife to work, work, work. I wish I have a husband like you. And the fact that you have two small children, it would be best for her to take care of them because kids grow up fast before you know it they'll be in college. And if the mom stays home she can take good care of her children well and you don't have to be worried all the time. She can go back to work when your children are all grown up. and anyway your making good money , you can support them well. Well, anyway good luck! I just wish I had a husband like you!!!
2016-05-17 22:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I AM A STAY HOME WIVE AS WELL AS MOTHER, I CLEAN UP FIRST. THAN I START PUTTING AN MENU TOGETHER, YOU SHOULD THINK OF THE FLAVOR DISH AS IN FOOD, THAT HE LIKE AND HAVE IT COOK IT ARENT GO TO THE STOMACH THAN AN HOME COOKED MENU. AND HAVING THE TABLE SET WITH CANDLES THEY LOVE THAT NO WHAT TIME HE MAKE IT HOME YOU CAN HAVE HIS BATHWATER READY. AND SOMETHING COMFORTABLE HE CAN SLIP ON AFTERWARD. SO IF THE HOUSE CLEAN SMELLING GOOD, HOME COOK FOOD, HOT BATH WATER. GIRL THEY LOVE IT TRY IT. AND AN NICE MASSAGE, GOOD LOVING THEY WILL APPRECIATE IT TRUST ME BEEN MARRY FOR 2 YRS I KNOW.
2007-04-24 09:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by shantel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE A SPECIAL DAY FOR THE TWO OF U . PREPARE
A DELICIOUS DINNER AND ARRANGE A ROMANTIC
SCENE AND HAVE SOME OF HIS FAVORITE THINGS
HE LIKES: FOODS, MUSIC, A GIFT , CANDLE LIGHT,
SOFT MUSIC, ROSE PETALS ALL OVER THE BEDROOM,
BATHROOM JUST MAKE IT A DAY FOR THE BOTH OF
U. AND MAYBE WRITE HIM A SPECIAL LETTER LETTING
HIM KNOW HOW MUCH U LOVE HIM AND HOW MUCH
U APPRECIATE HIM,,,,,,,,,, GOOD LUCK....................
2007-04-24 09:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess keep the apt. clean and have his dinner ready when gets back from work. Be nice to him you might want to give him a massage and look nice for him.
2007-04-24 09:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by muñeca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK IN 1999 -20O3 MY HUSBAND TOOK A JOB IN ALBAMBA WHILE ALL OUR KIDS AND FAMILY ARE HERE IN LOISIANA WE DROVE UP THER ON SUNDAY NITES AND BACK HOME ON FRI IT WAS HARD TO KEEP BUSY ALL DAY WHEN IT WAS JUST US TO CLEAN AFTER AND WE LIVED IN A 1BR APT HERE IN LA WE HAVE A 3 BR HOME AND OUR GROWN IKS STAYED HERE BUT TO SHOW MY HUSBAND HE WAS ON MY MIND WHILE HE WAS GONE I WOULD DO SILLY LIL THINGS LIKE LEAVE HIM A NOTE ONN THE DOOR TO MEET ME IN THE SHOWER WHEN HE CAME IN WHER I WOULD WAIT FOR HIM WITH A NICE BACK RUB AND OF COURSE I BATHED HIM SIME TIMES I WOULD HAVE SUPPER COOKED AND SOMETIME WE GO TO OUR FAVOIRIT PLACE ON THE RIVER FOR SUPPER AND WATCH THE YOTS COME IN AND THERE WERE TIMES I WOUL MAKE HIM COUPON BOOKS TO DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR HIM HE HAD 2WKS TO CASH THEM ALL IN USUALLY ABOUT 10 AND HE CAME FOR FOR LUNCH FOR A LIL AFTER NOON DELIGHT I WOULD LEAVE NOTS IN HIS TRUCK THAT SAID HOW MUCH I LOVE HIM AND MISS HIM ONE DAY HE SAID THERE NO OTHER MAN WHO IS LOVED SO MUCH ITS BEEN A BLESSING TO MARRIED TO A MAN WHO DOESNT MIND TAKEING GOOD CARE OF THERE WIFE AND FLY!
2007-04-24 09:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋