I am 14 and have NEVER gone out with anyone or had a boyfriend before. All of my friends are having boyfriends. I do feel left out and weird and stupid because I don't have one. I feel weird because I really don't want a boyfriend and EVERY girl at this age wants a boyfriend. Am I weird? I am NOT a lesbian because I am attracted to guys ONLY. Does anyone else know anyone like me? I feel so pressured to go out with a guy because all of my friends are. What should I do???
2007-04-24 08:56:26 · 1 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow-up before you loss your age! Your doing great! The longer you wait the less likly you'll fall into all the pitfalls that they well. I in my own time never saw one of those relationship make it past the summer, better yet the next school year. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the show. Learn from the mistakes your friends make and tell them that you don't see no need in getting into a relationship just for sex or love, you want something deeper, something even more long lasting. Not just a temperay fix and your welling to wait tell that someone shows themselves.... besides they'll be bad mouthing the boys anyways so you'll be looking like the smart one while they look like the desperate ones, which might break some friendships. But there not really friends anyways. Then its a matter of finding people that think like you, feel like you and actual care about you!
2007-04-25 09:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋