I think My boyfriend is cheating on me.....?

Question

What do I do? I don't have proof to the matter, I just have a gut feeling.

Answer 1

Ask him.
Tell him that you just have a gut feeling and you really don't want to go with your gut so you want to know.
Tell him that it is bugging you and let him know why you have this gut feeling.
I mean you must have seen him act towards a girl or something. Let him know. That is the only way that you are going to find out.

Answer 2

It seems like if that is your gut feeling it probably happening, you must have a reason for feeling like he's cheating. Keep as closer eye on him and ask around (your friends). If you ask him he's gonna deny it so just go with your gut feeling but get proof before you tell him to hit the road.

Answer 3

Listen I totally agree with all these answers sayin trust your gut. But I also know from first hand experience that I had a gut feeling my man was cheating on me and I asked him about it. (and it blew up in my face.) My gut feeling was wrong. I even knew about certian calls he had made to two different girls and I called them myself and asked them what the hell was going on with the two of them. They both said nothing that he was being totally faithful and I even made him go threw a hell of a lot of things just to prove to me that he wasn't cheating on me. And ya know what I believe him and since then we have gotten closer and things are working really well for us. But it is a rare thing when you can admitt your gut was wrong. If you really love him ask him about it and if he even has the slightest heisitation you should go with your gut. See what happened with mine was I asked and before I could even finish the last word he was already answering me and telling me that he couldn't believe I would think he cheated on me. And then he proved it to me. So you should think about how you want to take it when he tells you either "yes I have" or "no I haven't". But just remember there are those few times your gut is totally wrong. Especially if the gut feeling is coming just because you have been in a relationship in the past where he cheated.

Answer 4

Sooner or later, these events reveal themselves...someone "slips" in one way, or another.

I think its wrong to accuse unjustly without any justification..."Gut feelings" just aren't enough...Has someone seen something? Is he becoming distant with you? Is he openly flirting with another you've witnessed?

Perhaps a little more time must pass before anything is revealed - and remember, you can't force someone to love you, they either do or they don't. When you're young, often you have many boyfriends until you're older and find the right one...If it continues to bother you - either by a behavior change from him or your instincts, I suppose you could confront him. -But I'd be mighty careful what I said if I didn't have proof.

If you can no longer stand how you feel, and you're willing to go out on a limb here, maybe you should suggest to him casually, that you each date others, and see what his reaction is to that remark?

That might be your answer...

Goodluck (young love is sososososososos difficult sometimes! I sure remember all too well...)

Grace

Answer 5

Does he act different? Is he distant? Always listen to your gut. Do some detective work or just ask him. Yes I know he can deny it but can you tell if he is lying or maybe he will get very uncomfortable. You feel that way for a reason and you don't need to catch any diseases. Have a friend or someone help you don't let it go till you know the truth. Best of Luck!

Answer 6

Well maybe you should of told us a little bit more about your situation. Why do you have a gut feeling. Because right now you have no proof, it's just a feeling

Answer 7

Sorry about that he told me he was single. Seriously don't go on gut instinct alone if he is cheating on you it will be made soon enought, guys are terrible liars and get caught all the time. If you think he is cheating on you have one of your friends follow him around and see for sure. Or just ask him about it if he truely loves you he will, or should, tell you the truth. Sadly many men will go after any piece of flesh they see even if they are in a relationship to begin with. Good Luck and I hope he isn't, for your sake.

Answer 8

IF you don't think you can trust him, then you need to confront him. But if you don't have proof and you are just being paranoid then maybe you should talk to him. Find out how he feels. Talk for 3 hours and then figure things out. Don't come out and say "I'M SO MAD YOU ARE SO CHEATING" because he will just up and leave and be mad... Are you a paranoid person? or are your instincts usually correct? People say you should go with your first instinct of the matter. But well.

(If you find out he is, sorry :-(... but you know, you should really have some faith in your relationship.)

Answer 9

Follow your gutt but get proof. If he is cheating and you find out, make sure you know upfront what you plan to do about it. If you don't want to leave him, then find an alternative to how you are going to fix the problem. But keep in mind that once the trust is broken, it's very hard and some might say impossible to get back. Good luck.

Answer 10

Do not rely on gut instincts only, that could be from some paranoia you've developed from your past or knowing that there are those out there that will cheat. He must've said/did something that makes you feel this way, try reasking your question and tell us what really have you feeling this way. Or be very attentive to his words/actions and usually it'll reveal itself.