man i feel like a traitor lol =[?

Question

well i have this friend his name is johan and he has a girlfriend who is the coolest best girl i have ever met we are so alike and we laugh at all the same things and i can just be real with her right well i now have feelings for her and stuff and she is planning on breaking up with my friend johan she feels he doesnt treat her the right way i mean the guy barely even spends too much time with her he would rather go skate with his friends then spend time with her i mean i have even been to her house before him but by the way he still hasnt even been there lol well the question is that i think alma the girl likes me too she was asking me today if she should break up with johan right which by the way johan is kinda thinking he should break up with her i heard it from my friend right well she asks my opinion and i just tell her look at the way he treats you and all that and i also told her what my friend said and now she will break up wit him well my question is that how wrong would it be

if i went out with this girl ? i feel like a traitor if i do can someone give me some insight?


thanks =]

sorry would it be wong to go out with her is my question kinda =

yes when the girl asked me for advice she really pestered me for it i dont want to ruin theyre relationship so it took alot of her to get that "look how he treats you" thing out of me so yeah lol i love that saying bros over hoes lmao i lol =] (this girl ain a ho lol )

Answer 1

It is not a good thing, now or ever in life, to be the "instrument" to create a breakup of friends/family - unless someone is wholly being abused. So you've put in your "two cents" worth - STEP AWAY FROM THE GIRL dear...Let her find her way with Johan...because you've already said your piece and that is fine (you were asked...). -I just would not add any further "injury" to the situation by compromising your friendship with Johan further. Unless you're at a crossroads here...and you're weighing BOTH relationships and feeling you would rather be with her and risk your friendship with Johan.

You need to think about this awhile and not just be impulsive here...Know that's mighty hard to do, but sometimes, stepping back and allowing the situation to work itself out is a better choice in life.

I really don't think you want the "weight" of actually CAUSING this breakup, do you? -It is, one thing to give input when asked and not overdo it - and completely another to instigate chaos or upset in another's relationship, right?

If you can put your head on the pillow this night and not be troubled by your input to this girl, you're probably okay with it. But if you in your heart feel you "crossed" any "lines" you might have some trouble reconciling that fact, since Johan is, your friend.

Goodluck...Would that growing up be easier, but its not! -But you will get through this, I promise!

Grace

Answer 2

If you value youre friendship with johan then let the girl be. Even if they do break. If you don't mind losing a friend then by all means gor for the girl. Just remember, Bro's before hoes.

Answer 3

Dude first of all you should not have said, "well look how he treats you". Of course you want her to break up with the other guy and go out with you. But you should have said this, "I don't know it is how you feel is right, ya' know. " aomething like that! Second of all if you go out with that girl and you friend still has feelings for her that is a traitor, but you said your friend wants to break up with her also, so what's the problem, go for it and if your friend does not want to be your friend any more make a choice him or her.

Answer 4

Well, they are both thinking about breaking up with each other so i don't think it would be wrong since they both don't want to be together anymore and if they had feelings for each other they would want to stay together and not break up over something small. I think your friends gf likes you the same way you like her.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

is it worth losing a friend over if they havent been together too long dont sweat about it. If you know you cantreat her better then by all means

Answer 7

didnt even read it, its too long to read sorri

Answer 8

if your friend would be upset by it, then it would be wrong.