I am a regular guy and I am naturally attracted to girls. In our big office at work, I do look at them but they do not seem to notice me. Have they already looked and decided not to look again or is that just what they have trained themselves to do? Should I say Hi ? Or should I just get on with my life?
2007-04-24 08:24:14 · 16 answers · asked by yakatang 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
oh, trust me, girls look. but we're so much sneakier than guys are about it. there are probably quite a few girls who are interested in you, but girls don't want to appear too forward, so they haven't said anything or made it obvious that they've checked you out.
if there's a particular girl you're interested in, strike up a conversation. even if it seems awkward, if she's worth you're time, she'll respond positively. remember, she might be shy/quiet, so it might take awhile.
just be friendly, but not overly persistant. that's a big turn off. it's also a big turn off if she sees you flirting with every other girl in your office, because then she'll think you're not really interested in her, you're just interested in anyone. it's okay to talk to other girls, be friendly, but just spend a little extra time getting to know that one particular girl who's caught your eye.
2007-04-24 09:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Caliope220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always look at men...In fact, I am often the only woman in a room full of men, due to the organization that I'm in, and sometimes use the opportunity to understand which of them is the best looking. I'm not interested in seeing any of them, as (a) I'm married, and (b) I don't want to fish off the company pier, so to speak...But have no doubts that I look!
You should definitely say hi...At the very least, you'll have met someone new. Mid ground is you have a new friend, and life is too short to skip out on that opportunity. Best case, you find a new love!
It doesn't hurt to introduce yourself...Or even to ask someone to lunch. The worst thing that can happen is they say no.
2007-04-24 08:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget work related relationships altogether. Never try to get your women and paycheck at the same place, my friend. Most relationships do not last, then you are faced with an uncomfortable situation of seeing them afterwards EVERY DAY. You don't want that. Stick to business at work.
The setting has a lot to do with whether women "look" or not. Try going to a male strip bar or "meat market" night club and see if women "look" or not.
2007-04-24 11:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, women aren't as obvious as men are. Of course they look at you; you just won't catch them unless you're sly. The reason why girls don't notice you is probably because you're trying too hard. Girls like guys that don't pay attention to them. I know that sounds crazy but it works; trust me. If you see a girl you like, walk by her and smile at her but KEEP GOING. Let her talk to you first. If she likes you, she will. If she doesn't, move on.....good luck!
2007-04-24 08:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi it wouldn't hurt, but if they don't seem interested any you after you try talking to them move on. It is true we look at guys, just not as often or as obvious as guys look at us. Good luck.
2007-04-24 08:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Aely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We notice. Believe me. We don't make comments or continue to stare. Say Hi. No harm in being nice. If something comes of it, then something does...but u never know unless you try.
2007-04-24 09:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by KJ97Y100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi! what's the worst that could happen? they'll ignore you? oh well! that's just one less 'no' to face before you find the next yes! and as for whether they've just seen you, girls just have a natural talent at being subtle...
anyway, just say hi!
2007-04-24 08:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe they are more concerned with their getting their jobs done than looking at men. Also, haven't you learned that you should never date someone from where you work. It could get uncomfortable.
2007-04-24 09:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every woman is looking at you. In fact, it's pretty rare.
Especially if the intellect is missing. If that's the case, the rest is useless.
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