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there is this girl that i would love to go out with. The thing is everytime i go near her or she goes near me i go quite how do i overcome this problem

2007-04-24 07:08:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

spelling error quiet

2007-04-24 07:18:35 · update #1

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Thats a problem we all face in life,in all arena's,not just dating.But I will tell you a secret.....tell her that every time you get near her you go quiet...that will impress her,whether she likes you or not,it will flatter her to no end,girls love to feel pretty and that will do it...then you can add on to it,like"I like you so much I clam up"or I want to talk to you and try and impress you,but I like you so much,I dont know what to say that wont make you think I'm an idiot...there,you have two things going for you,flattery and honesty,,girls eat that stuff up...especially the honesty....also girls love a challenge..if she thinks its gonna be a challenge to make you feel more comfortabloe around hger,then you just might find yourself spending alot more time with her!!!good luck my freind and remember,,theres someone for everyone and even if its not her,theres alot more where she came from......ever see the movie"little miss sunshine"?remember the advice the old man gave the young man in the van?????good advice.

2007-04-24 07:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by r 4 · 0 0

"I go quite"...I think you mean " I go quiet"
as in you are shy & don't know what to say
I had that problem when I was young too..
overcoming it isn't easy.
Think of something to say to her before you
bump into eachother & just go for it...she won't
bite you or anything & hopefully she will contribute to the
conversation too.
Otherwise you will miss out on many opportunities & have
regrets when you are older.
Good luck!

2007-04-24 14:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by petsrus2002 2 · 0 0

Just realize that it's always worth taking a chance. Unless you have some evidence that she is NOT interested, make small chat with her. Think "what's the worst that could happen?" You feel a little embarrased - that'll pass!

2007-04-24 14:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by pammy 2 · 0 0

You probably get nervous, just suck it up and try to ask her out with you. Its not a big deal.

2007-04-24 14:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by maria d 2 · 0 0

Grow a spine!

2007-04-24 14:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by thomas 7 · 0 1

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