I think i fell for a girl... I've been in love twice before but it never felt like this. I'm 25 she is 24, I am moving away in July to another state, she is in school right now, so I mean we can't just run away together.... I don't even know if she likes me like that, we've been on 5 dates and loved every one of them, and she say's she has a lot of fun hanging out with me.
I guess what i'm wondering is, she is a shy girl and for you "shy girls" is that a hard thing to even say to a guy? i mean that you have a lot of fun hanging out with the guy? I really feel as though i have a connection with her, and i tried asking her if she liked me but never got a response...
Would you date a guy that was moving away soon? I mean it is all about the Experiance right? thats the game of life as far as i'm concerned
2007-04-24 06:40:36 · 24 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if its love.... really u have all the time in the world a lil distance wont change anyhting... keep in touch and tell her u love her. not yet... 5 dates... geez. tel her how u feel dont freak her out... - u know hwat
spannely85@yahoo.com email me... ill help ya out man
2007-04-24 06:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by LIL JAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one.
If she is a shy girl like me, I respond much more to a man who takes the lead and lets me know what is on his mind. For example, all I needed from my new guy was an arm over my shoulder and a little comment "I'm having a great time tonight." Then I knew it was safe for me to open up to him.
On the other hand, I've done the long distance thing (for 4 years if you can believe that) and it was way too hard. I would not recommend it to any one. Nope, it didn't last. The time you are away you will change and grow into a different person. I don't think it's something that happens intentionally, but it happens and you end up hanging on because of how you "were" not because who you've become.
2007-04-24 06:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, is sounds like the response you got is not at the level you are at.
I would not take a guy seriously if I knew he was moving away for a while. With that being said the girl is not only shy but has guarded her emotions.
If I were you I would put my emotions in writting and have her respond the same way, if she is shy she will feel comfortable in answering honestly.
Have a plan.....
2007-04-24 06:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by milenka_b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it can be a tough thing for someone that is shy to come out and say, without being prompted first. If you asked though, and she didn't asnwer, I'd be a bit concerned.
Regarding the moving away thing, I might be willing to date someone, but not go beyond that, just have fun hanging out, and realize it's not going to go anywhere, because you're leaving.
2007-04-24 06:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1)I wouldnt say I had a good time if I really didnt because i wouldnt risk having you asking me for another date if I had a bad time, so I think she meant it. 2)If I really LIKE you I would hurry up and do SOMETHING before you leave but if I feel something beyond liking you I wouldnt get too involved for fear of getting hurt when you leave. Sooo if the girl doesnt want any thing for now, dont worry it probably means that she loves you Good luck
2007-04-24 06:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by cangri girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here is the thing, all women have a plan, but not all of them know what it is, I think you should ask her what her plans are, then after you LISTEN CAREFULLY, you will decide whether she sees you as someone with potential to be part of that plan or not, If she doe not know what her plan is which could be the case, then there is not much seriousness in the relationships she enters, let her be herself then if you like what you hear, see and feel, I think you should stick to it. Otherwise, move on, It will save you a lot of grief in the future.
2007-04-24 06:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos N 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-30 04:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to believe a person who proclaims "love but never like this before" after having 5 dates with a person you're not even sure likes you. She's not responding to your "do you feel a connection" questions because he hardly knows you.
No, I wouldn't date a guy who was moving away soon. Why bother?
2007-04-24 06:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't date someone that was moving away soon because thats just setting yourself up for heartbreak. And I'm a shy girl and yes it can be hard to tell someone you like them. If things are going good, just take it by ear and see what happens.
good luck!
2007-04-24 06:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK i would not start dating a guy that was moving away because a long distance relationship is hard to deal with. With me it is like this: Out of sight, out of mind. But if we have hung out and i like it then when he would come to visit then we would still hang out.
2007-04-24 06:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ga's Peach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
speaking as a shy girl, she seems awfully evasive. If your moving I don't think she has any intention of making it serious because long distance relationships dont work well. Just enjoy it so you have a great memory to take with you, if she wants more and so do you go from there, no pressures.
2007-04-24 06:45:56 · answer #11 · answered by Missy 75 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋