i'm in love, but the relationship needs to end for various reasons,..i need your advice.
2007-04-24 06:05:17 · 23 answers · asked by lovelthotchik747 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it needs to end bc it isn't right in my family and friend's eyes. I'm in love though.
2007-04-24 06:13:09 · update #1
This isnt a poetic story, this is what is really happening in someone's life,..respect it. plz.
2007-04-24 06:14:28 · update #2
Love is a disease that makes our hearts come alive. Not being in love is much happier, but it is not as alive. Once you get out of love you will be happier.
2007-04-24 06:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that it is for the best. Its going to be hard regardless of what anyone says, and no one should make you feel like you have to be strong and get over it. When I broke up with my last boyfriend, I felt like I should have been devastated, but realizing that if the relationship I would have been in more pain, made it easier to get over and move on! Remember too, after this is all said and done, don't write love off, you never know what you might find in the future!
2007-04-24 13:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The root of the problem is our own definition of what love is. We seem to think its this excitment we feel towards someone or the tingling we get from what they do or say...but love extends even to the choice we make...and we tend to make some pretty wrong decisions based on feelings alone....Love is unconditional....its fulfilling....its not sex. A man who denys you loves you far more than one out to prove how much he 'loves' you...but unfortunately we usually make the wrong choice. Some women think that its just unethical to fall for a friend or maybe just plain boring. But if you want to experience love at its fullest with less pain...just look among those who have always been there for you...especially if he/she is your best friend. Thats the best place to find true love these days and not constantly get hurt.
2007-04-24 13:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by cabcom2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not hard. The pain is coming from having expectations that are not met and the resulting disappointment and sadness. Just because you love someone does not mean the relationship is good for you or will work. When you end it the pain will lessen and you will get over it.
2007-04-24 13:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is only hard when you make it hard. The problem is that love is not real but in a way we know it exist. These are the kind of questions that keep me up at night.
2007-04-24 13:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by killedheart101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know sometimes people mistaken the trials of their life.. sometimes they thought that it was the end no solution to that certain problem.. you should know that if you are happy and definitely inlove with each other you should hold on and accept any challenges that goes with it, if you end your relationship be sure to bear all the pain it will give to both of you.. because once you end your relationship its gonna be like a glass shattered.. and once you tried to get the pieces of the glasses back.. it will not be what it used to be...
2007-04-24 13:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by fOuRteEN14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't hard, no one would appreciate it. If it didn't cause so much pain, then on the reverse, it would cause so much pleasure either. Remember the old phrase, "it is better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved before".
2007-04-24 13:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love causes so much pain because its all worth it in the end when you grow old together no pain no gain but if u love him give him ur all and if he does the same ur love will blossom
2007-04-24 13:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't difficult at all. Its out tenitive relationships with the oppisite sex that drive us crazy. Do what you feel is right.
2007-04-24 13:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in order to appreciate it when a truly good guy comes along, you have to be emotionally beaten up a few times.
2007-04-24 13:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋