I like this younger man he's very mature , great career if we get along and just be great partners without any strong commitiments, is it allowed to date a younger man if he treats me with respect?
2007-04-24 05:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There aren't any rules against it since he is over eighteen but I think that would just feel weird since he is half your age.
2007-04-24 05:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating younger men can make you feel really good about yourself. and it can make you feel not so good about yourself. Be aware. For some young men are looking for older women, they see it as a notch or a rite of passage.
After 10 years of a marriage the first realtionship I had was with a man who was younger, i was 31 and he was 24 I had a time with him getting on my level. I gave him 3 years of my life. Then I got invlolved with a man who was 12 years younger and that went on for 3 years. I like dating younger men, they do make me feel special. But at times it can be a problem. they don't always see things in the same light as you.
If you are looking for someone to hang out with well then its no problem but be aware some one at some point will want to move on or move the realationship up. You may start as friends but it can change into a committment or lack of.
I am trying to give you both sides. This should be fun as this appears to be your first time. LOL
If your age doesn't matter to him why should it matter to anyone else. They are not sleeping with him and you make not be yet but hopefuly soon. LOL
Enjoy. If he should ever disrespect you, Cut him off the first time and move on to another young man.
They love us older women.
2007-04-24 05:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Moni S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you truly have a significant courting with someone, age is not any interest. each guy i have dated in my entire existence has been older than me. I recommend in college i continuously went out with men many years older than me, yet as i have were given older i have dated men more beneficial than ten years older than me! i have been out with a 30 365 days previous formerly, (this 365 days), and im 19. if a lady received't date u in basic terms by this, she's no longer nicely worth you time. genuinely to be straightforward, i a lot favor older men because i hit upon they're extra respectful and performance existence journey, while youthful men have a tendency to be truly immature and use extremely some females. even if i'd not bypass out with a guy that regarded older than his age. in case you seem youthful than 30, in basic terms imagine your self fortunate and be at liberty! or bypass for a lady who's 30 also lol. sturdy success!
2016-12-04 19:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am 26, and I don't date men under 30. In fact, I've met some really hot guys in their 40s. So if you want the college boys, you can have him. If he acts more mature, then more power to you.
2007-04-24 05:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Britney J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it! I've heard that older women make great lovers because we've already been through the "immature" stages of being clingy and whiny (If we ever were). We're more confident, we have more self esteem, we're more settled and sometimes younger guys find that extremely attractive!
2007-04-24 05:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Princess of the Realm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt be a problem but you gotta understand if he make mistakes you have to understand that he is only 21 i think a good younger age for you to date is 35
2007-04-24 05:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont wanna end up like gaby in desperate housewives first check and see if his mother/father/family approves of it. If hes a runaway/drifter/independent guy who doesnt have family i say what the heck. go for it
2007-04-24 05:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by mis-teeq-lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see why you can't date him. Older men are always looking out for and dating younger women....why should it be any different for you?
2007-04-24 05:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.....age is only a number.
Hey Britney.....get ahold of me....lol
2007-04-24 05:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by crazycul1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant say its wrong cause id sound like a hypocrite but do this with your eyes open
2007-04-24 05:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋