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My boyfriend is not satisfied with me, even i try my best to satisfy him in sexual intercourse, i do everything,every step for his satisfication, and now he is making interest to find some other girlfriend, i'm much frightened to loose him anyway, can anyone give me some tips and tricks to get his attention to me, please i'll b very thnkful.

2007-04-24 04:42:17 · 40 answers · asked by ashi a 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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mmmmmmmmm very dangerouse situation, u dont had explained the type of satisfication that he wants??? let me solve ur problem, what do u do to satisfy him is not so important, the main point is why he is not getting satisfication? if u've passed a great time with him and u've done many times sexual intercourse than u and he must know to each other very well, and a long period the person passed in the same company is enough to know about each other, he is just fad up with ur company, now he is going to leave u, so he finds out different ways to leave u, it's better to leave him before he does...

2007-04-24 21:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Muhammad farhan 2 · 0 0

Your not able to satisfy your guy during sexual intercourse? Is he not able to orgasm? To be honest, I don't think the problem is with you, I think the problem is with him. If he orgasms, then your work is done. If he is wanting more than that, then he is just looking for an excuse to break it off with you. I say let him go. The thing is, he shouldn't be thinking about himself, he should be focused on satisfying you. If he can't get it up, its not your fault, its his. If you touch him, kiss him, and if you do oral, and he can't be satisfied with that, then its him, not you.
Just kick him and his limp noodle to the curb, and move on. Either that or give him viagra, that might help him too.

On a serious note, if he masterbates often, that might keep him from being satisfied with you. I know of a former married couple, the girl was beautiful and very sexual, and her now ex husband would go satisfy himself to online porn. It was pretty sad, but that was the only way he could satisfy himself. Maybe your guy has deeper issues, so don't blame yourself, and find yourself a guy who will focus on your satisfaction, rather than his.

2007-04-24 04:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by George P 6 · 1 0

Sorry to hear that. He should be opened to work with you on that situation. Ask him what he likes and what he would like for you to do? Don't feel so bad he may just be saying that to bring another girl into your relationship. P.S. Maybe you should end the relationship rather than letting him search for someone else while still using you. Maybe after a while of no sex he will realize you weren't so bad after all. I'd imagine you are better than his right hand.

2007-04-24 04:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by ME 4 · 0 0

Good grief girl, if he doesnt appreciate how much you care for him enough to actually ask people on the internet, he deserves to be dumped. Big time. Why should you feel like you have to satisfy his lust to keep him around? its just wrong. Please have a little more self respect. You dont need a man to get by. Sure, you love him and all. If he doesnt feel the same way, he aint deservin' of all the lovin'.

2007-04-24 05:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What you should do is meet him at the front door naked with dinner cooked. Take off his shoes, coat, shirt and pants. Have him sit down in a chair or on the sofa and feed him. While you are doing that tell him this is his night to get whatever he wants from you. Then you should do whatever he asks of you. But when you are having sex move your hips or get on top and ride him like there is no tomorrow.

2007-04-24 04:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0 0

I think submitting youself to a man completely involves lots of trust etc. I think its a fantasy best served when you meet the right type of man that you trust and care for as opposed to it being a fantasy you act out with a guy from a one night stand. Have fun exploring your wild side, from experience dominance and submission are explosive in the bedroom, they just need trust on both parts to give the man the confidence do take control of the woman without worrying hes doing things she may not like etc and for the woman to trust the man to take control and enjoy whatever he has in store.

2016-05-17 21:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by krysta 3 · 0 0

While it's admirable that you want to satisfy him, have you actually ASKED him what he wants and what he likes? You're not a mind-reader. You can't automatically know what feels good for him and what you need to do. He needs to tell you what works and what doesn't so you know what you're doing right and what you're doing wrong.

Just ask him to talk to you or else just ask him basic yes or no questions during - "Does that feel good?" or "Faster?" or "Is my hand okay there?"

You sound like you're willing to learn, but he has to be willing to teach, too.

2007-04-24 04:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0 0

A relationship isnt all about sex
If he would leave you for that reason then he obviously isnt worth it but I'm sure thats not what you want to hear

Maybe you could dress up? Some kind of outfit he would like? You could try incorparating food?

Lots of little things

Good luck

2007-04-24 04:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Hey he sounds like he can actually cheat on you, I think its best you leave him and find someone else who wont treat you this way....Its his problem if he cant be satisfied, there is lots of men who will love to be with you, so tell him that if you cant satisfy him then maybe he should go find someone else who will

2007-04-24 04:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0 0

You need to ask him what he wants and then do it. It's that simple. If he still tells you he's going to get another girlfriend, then it's probably something else that cannot be fixed. If this is the case, be the one to dump him and find a guy that you can communicate with.

2007-04-24 04:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 1 0

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