I used to have a purely sexual relationship with a guy, we met online and are not at all compatible. The sex was so hot but I need an emotional connection to feel safe. It ended last spring (I had to) but sometimes I miss the excitement. I miss him. I'm in a boring relationship right now. I know the guy loves me but he has a very low sex drive. So what should I do now?
2007-04-24 04:24:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sometimes we are attracted to bad boys because we have the tendency to believe we are able to change them. Sometimes when new people come in to our life lacking what someone else had it can be tough, Maybe you can try to spice things up a little bit or maybe try some toys for your own time to give you the pleasure! I know how you feel because my ex could do everything right and my fiance doesnt please me the same way but if you love this person and he loves you just except things the way they are and please yourself which isnt so bad sometimes! Good Luck
2007-04-24 04:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by cbella06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason why women are attracted to the "bad boy" is because for one, we are not afraid to take chances, be a little risque. We are constantly trying to find ways to spice up our relationships and we are not afraid to stand up for our women...Plain and simple. You should have stayed with what made you happy and given the relationship a chance before bailing out. Compatibility and the emotional connection may have come if given more time. Dump the stiff, you'll never be happy with him anyway and find someone that can keep the fire burning while you both grow to appreciate each other.
2007-04-24 04:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people out there so if you are in a boring relationship do something about it. I think women tend to go for bad boys so that we feel safe when we are out with them. I know that is why I used to date them I don't want someone who is going to stand by and let men grab at me in front of them
2007-04-24 04:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone that excites you but is also compatible with you. Easier said than done but I don't think it's good to be with someone just so you have a relationship. Try to find someone you have fun being around and they may be able to fulfill your desires for sex and emotion.
2007-04-24 04:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Siddler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a bad boy type of girl due to the fact that they lie they cheat and im way to smart to believe all the crap they dish out. but in your relationship know if the sex is bla! pick it up a notch get some toys or food maybe even cuffs go kinky there has to be something to get this boy's sex drive up and going
2007-04-24 04:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like bad girls. In my marriage sex was the only thing that worked...but I felt like a tool. So I guess I can see where you're coming from. Is there such a thing as a nice girl who likes having sex like a wild animal?
2007-04-24 04:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what u like.
No reason making u and him suffer.
Get a guy u like.
I like bad boys cause they are so much more fun. U never no what 2 xpect. they are so surprising and that keeps the relationship alive. (mine at least)
Stay safe.
2007-04-24 04:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Viaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered this yourself. We like bad boys for the excitement.
2007-04-24 04:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by J M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new, don't settle for less or settle just to settle.
I like the bad boy essence but if he's just a bad guy and doesn't have anything else to him then I wouldn't want him.
2007-04-24 04:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe stop being so concered with sex...there are good women out there that can't find a decent man to 'date' and people are complaining about sex
2007-04-24 04:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋