Ok, so I have short hair. I love it, and its cute and spunky. But for some reason, guys dont talk to me because of it.
What are some good places to meet guys who wont judge me based on my hair?
Im 22 btw and live in Chicagoland. I dont go to church that much (but im Christian), and I work 830-5 M-F.
2007-04-24 04:12:49 · 16 answers · asked by sweetblueyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I know its my hair. Ive actually had guys tell me (after seeing an old photo) that I needed to grow out my hair for them to date me.
I exercise regularly and I am blonde / blue eyes. Nice rack, nice tush.
Trust me... its my hair.
2007-04-24 04:24:45 · update #1
And for anyone who questions... I am not a dumb blonde.
I work for an internationally recognized science lab in the nuclear physics division.
and they are hosting my law school.
trust me, i know how to hold a conversation.
2007-04-26 04:32:44 · update #2
GIRL if these BOYS are looking at your physical and not the person you are then you dont want those type of boys anyway, it aint got nothing to do with your hair, your just attracting the wrong type of BOYS, walk with your head up, walk with confidence, cause your beautiful long, short, or no hair. then you will attract MEN not boys. go dancing dance like you never danced before, go bowling play pool, even hit up a mature sports bar watch the game,(happy hour on fridays) but love yourself girl with confidence. trust me, boys seek out the weak, men know the strong & mature.
2007-05-02 03:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by saywhat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not your hair, it's you. Look at how you describe yourself, "nice rack, nice tush". What is that about????? First off, yes the first thing that attracts a person to you are your looks, but don't count on it keeping them there. When you open your mouth, don't come off as a "dumb blonde". That's played out. Guys don't go for that anymore. They want someone they can actually have a conversation with and not be embarrased to take to meet their friends. Work on you.
2007-04-26 04:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by bubblyboo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have received a lot of good answers. However, let me add one more.
Short hair is interpreted by some men as a sign of a lesbian.
You sound like your father and mother should get a Nobel prize for architecture.
Get a part time job in a photo store. Some day your "prints" will come.
2007-05-02 03:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by radar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how up on sports you are, but a sports bar would be a good place to go. Baseball started up, NBA playoffs are going on, NBA is starting up etc..... You might want to try different types of conferences that interest you. You are in a field where many men should be available...LOL I am a teacher there are lots of women. LOL
Do not change your hair unless you want to.
2007-05-01 20:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dede 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you sound confident..over confident. And male dont like female on their heads..they believed in protecting the female and the young..
usually guys will love easy, no string conversation..bout the hair..Mine is short and cool..And men still come near me..but not as much as the long hair girls..lol..who cares? only guys with taste come forth.. my hair had done the level one "clear-the-jerk" process..dont let the guys change the hair style..short is as fine as long..only better.
2007-05-01 23:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by genie l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not your hair...its the guys you are talking to...
what the hell is grow your hair out and then I will date you?? thats messed up...
you shouldnt go out with someone that will date you based on what you look like...
chances are you are a bright, intelligent, attractive, young woman...dont let anyone talk down to you...
the right one will come along and love you whether or not you even have hair....
dont change yourself for a man either....stay who you are
and remember...what one doesnt want...someone else will...
be patient
2007-05-02 03:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop thinking its your hair... becuase us guys can pick up on that.. and we will then start to worry about it too.. so relax about that.. but if u wanna meet guys.. going to the gym, or a local bar, or go out with some friends... who know guys and just talk.. if a person is shallow enough to not wanna talk to u becasue of ur hair.. then forget em!
hope that helps
2007-05-02 04:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Hunts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for a walk at a local park, lots of guys there exercising
joing a gym, the place is full of guys
they are everywhere, just open your eyes. ask someone for help or directions even if you don't need any help
2007-04-24 04:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are intimidating. The problem may not be your hair. Good luck in your search for the right man.
2007-05-02 04:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by candle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could compromise with your hair. Maybe not have it as long as before but longer than it is now. The length you have it now may be causing guys to think you are a butch dyke.
2007-05-02 03:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋