i like a girl we are gd mates but we both know it would work yes but if any of us dumbed each other then we would not be as gd mates , im 19 i just feel that im never going to find a g.f i dont like clubing but i go to a college one night a week but there all older then me what can i do, my mates sayed they would find somone for me but never do , but the one i like says i will find somone soon
2007-04-24 03:57:56 · 23 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out more lad!
2007-04-24 04:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jay A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man sometimes you have to take a risk and go out with the girl you like even though you guys are gd mates. Love is a gamble but if you win then it was worth but you'll never know if you don't gamble. Maybe this gurl is the one all you have to do is take a chance plus your only 19 you still have like 70 yrs to find some body. Live a little and roll the dice man.
2007-04-24 04:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by atomicatom18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt think too much of getting a girlfriend. You're still young! Maybe the girl you like is meant for you, but the time isnt right yet. Just wait and you'll see. Dont rush yea.
Last time when i broke up with my first bf, I knew the only way i could get over him was to find another bf but it was hard for me cuz no one seems to be better than him. After about a year, i finally found someone who is much better.
It might take a year or more for you to have a gf. so just be patient. when you have a gf, remember to always be loyal ! ((:
all the best
2007-04-24 04:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about what'll happen when you're the same age as those college girls. Some people just aren't meant to have lots of girlfriends or boyfriends. Be a good friend to lots of girls, one will eventually reciprocate. Also, as they all are saying, you're only nineteen, so don't worry at all yet. If you were sixty, I'd say otherwise, but you're still young.
2007-04-24 04:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anniekd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm sure everyone says this but you will find someone but if your looking it tends not to come relax have a good time when you go out and be yourself. As you said your only 19 you got a long time ahead of you and plenty of time for a relationship.
2007-04-24 04:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by lyn_kim_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am talking from experience here, you will find someone when you least expect it. I was nearly 19 before I had my first b.f. I'd got to the stage where I thought I'd never find someone, because, like you, I don't go clubbing or anywhere else I was likely to "pull"! That guy was someone who had been around in my life for years, and never thought of in that way at all, until one day we were chatting and something clicked. The guy I'm with now, we met because his parents knew me and they told him so many times that I was perfect for him that he asked me out initially just to shut them up having met me only once before (met me in the morning, asked me out in the evening), and nearly 5 months later we're still together. So don't worry about it, when its meant to happen it will, and it'll be with someone you don't expect. :D
2007-04-24 04:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Leggy_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get out more. You meet people a lot easier than just staying at home. Also, mabe you should try looking for someone older than you. Because it seems like your more mature than most 19 year olds. Hope this helps:) good luck!
2007-04-24 04:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by mandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
christ!!! stop worrying you are very young!!
just go to any party you can find never turn an invite down!!
just go to some smart bars instead of clubbing then!!!
make sure you always smile and look your best it attracts them!!!!
dont get pissed and act loutish!!!
you should be fine lad.
stop the worry ok?
2007-04-24 04:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you really don't want to be. It's simple - go out and meet loads of people (and I don't mean clubbing! Try taking up a sport or something), you're bound to meet someone you like eventually...get to know them, see if you think they like you, ask them out...
2007-04-24 04:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask the girl out, if she says no then you know that she is just protecting the friendship and you will be able to talk bout it sooner or later. or you could go out more and look for someone else.
2007-04-24 04:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by flutterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find more things you like doing and get out and do them!!
When you STOP LOOKING for a girlfriend, one will jump out and nab you!
2007-04-24 04:04:08 · answer #11 · answered by Haydn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋