I am just looking for fun dating, not a serious relationship yet, but don't want to put myself in the 'underdog' position. I am told that I expect too much, but why put yourself out there? Plus don't guys want to chase rather than be chased?
I am the girl that has plenty of flirtations / first dates but seldom gets past that, and my friends tell me I am not a girl with the 'bad personality' haha. :-)
2007-04-24 03:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you're easy but you're not getting laid because you act up?
Hmm..
Phone number? :)
2007-04-24 03:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that you have lots of first dates without a lot of second dates because you communicate that you are looking mainly for fun dating. The people you date may be sincerely attracted to you and they sense that you are really aren't looking for a serious relationship because you are sending very clear messages that you don't want that. Most people aren't dating with the idea that you are the only person for them - but they also want a serious relationship to be worth considering.
You must have a good personality to have plenty of first dates. But first dates usually are followed by second dates, then third dates, etc. Somewhere, there is a cutoff point. Usually it's called 'breaking up' - and it can be done amicably.
Look to date the smooth talking guy who doesn't want to settle down. Have a good time with him and make it clear you are going to date other guys. Date several of these types and you can keep quite busy! Just make sure not to get attached to any of them. Make it clear you're only dating for the fun of it.
2007-04-24 11:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ****, if they kinda like you then thats all you can hope for if your not serious because its only gonna hurt the person that really likes you if you start to date them. I recently fell in love with a girl and we dated for a while... to put it short shes leaving for dance(competitive) in november and on both our parts it was to hard to just wear our heart on our sleeves and put a end to it. We casually date each other and talk on the phone all the time but its getting to hard for me... Dont ruin some poor guys life by leading him on so yes go for a guy that"kinda" likes oyu otherwise karmas a *****
2007-04-24 10:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by M-A- Double T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ayt to get into kinda like yous cos there are alot of tyms when there is something good ther
and since you aint looking to get serious why the hell not
2007-04-24 11:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by miss-law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going and doing what you think is so cute, haha, and you'll end up alone!
2007-04-24 10:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so, but he might start liking you alot later so you might try to like him but don't depend on him too much...
2007-04-24 11:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for fun, then fun you shud have...
2007-04-24 10:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋