i need advise :(?

Question

i resently split up with my boyfriend ive been with for only a mounth but it was going so well ..and his reason for dumping me was i didnt make an effort but then he said i was to clingy and now hes telling people ive slept with him and he frowns at me when we see each other i dont want it to be like that but i also want him back !

Answer 1

ok... - firstly, you really don't want to be a - b a s t a r d - like that if he treats you like this - that's not right and its not fair and you don't deserve it.

my recommendation is to get yourself well dressed up, i mean absolutely gorgeous, then go out to a couple of clubs or pubs where you know he hangs around, and get really flirty and chatty with some random blokes - nothing more than that, and just really show him that you don't give a f*ck about him or what he thinks, and that you can get any bloke you want. he'll soon be crawling back and then you can have the last laugh at him and turn him down like the dog that he is.

be brave sweety - it'll be worth it in the end - trust me!

Answer 2

Girl, grow up!

First of all, excuse me, but if you call him your boy friend after just one month, you must be pretty young. Grown up people know that it is good to take a long hard look before you make such an important decision as to be close with someone.

Too much is at stake and you have to pay yourself enough respect to make sure your choice is right - and 4 weeks is too short by any measures.

If he simply dumped you that quickly, it demonstrates that he can't be bothered to discuss issues with you, which is a must in any relationship. With this sort of hit-and- run mentality you can't have a working relationship.

And even if you HAD discussed it, he must be impatient as he did not give you enough time to change. Scoring bad again.

Now the idiot is even behaving worse by telling you slept with him. True or not, a gentleman does not tell. Only childish boys do. He shows no respect for you.

If you still want him back, gril, you are nuts. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, get someone who is mature enough to treat your right.

Answer 3

Why? For what reason could you possibly want to be with such a complete idiot? If he's telling people you slept with him when you didn't then he's a liar and if you did (and more fool you if you did) then he's completely untrustworthy. Either way I suggest you stay right away from him.

Answer 4

He has a point both men and women should look there best for their partners.... there are other people out there trying the best so why dont you... but i dont agree with him telling people!!!
why dont you tell people about him say he was bad in the sack!!!
dont worry i am sure you will find another better...
but learn a lesson from it dont forget!!
kisses

Answer 5

He is just making trying to make you feel like scum, He is treating you like crap and seeing how much he can get away with to try and impress his so called mates, sadly he has picked you as his latest victim. Hold your head high and smile next time you come in contact with him. There are plenty of arseholes out there but there is also guys that will treat you like you deserve to be treated.

Answer 6

he sounds like kind of a dick if he is telling people all diffrent storys,. I say move on bc you dont want to waste your time with someone who isnt worth it!!

Answer 7

if he did that to u one time he will do it to you again that happen to me i kept going with the same person and finally he was with another girl so i move on to a different boyfriend

Answer 8

Move on - man's a Richard Cranium -

Answer 9

er why would you want someone back thats prooving to be a prat all he will do is cause you problems just forget him

Answer 10

He sounds like an idiot, and a child.