Any suggestions for me?
2007-04-24 03:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by Keith y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first time, the guy was really sweet. I'm so glad I don't regret who I had sex with the first time. He took it easy, made sure not to hurt me, and was very passionate. He really made it special. It was uncomfortable at first, like it normally is for girls, but it started to feel good after a while. Once I got into it more, we really hit it off. I suggest that when you do it, be passionate (kiss her neck, etc.), take it slow at first and speed up a little if she is really into it. Also, talk sweet to her before making your move on her. Lead up to it, don't just jump into it. Make it a special experience that you'll always remember. Don't make it an experience that you will want to forget. Does she know you are a virgin? If she does, she will be more understanding if you are a little shaky at first. If she doesn't know, then taking it easy might be your best bet so that you don't mess up. Lol. Anyway, good luck and have fun! Oh yeah, and try to last as long as you can, if you know what I mean, but don't hurt yourself!
2007-04-24 03:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. I thought I was going to wait for marriage. But when I was a freshman in college, I was like SCREW IT. I wanted to get it over with. I felt it was overrated and that intercourse and love were 2 different things that could be enjoyed separately at times. I was right and wrong. I got it over with and the guy was a friend who knew I was a virgin and was a bit sensitive, so he made sure to treat me like royalty. He took it slow and made it fun. Afterwards he hung with me for a week, taking me places, going on fun casual dates. And then he left to Washington. But the point was he made sure to let me know he understood what he had taken from me and he wanted to show his appreciation.
So my best advice to you is to do it with someone you trust, wear a condom, and if you are sensitive like me, make sure you let them know you would like to make sure things will not be wierd the next day. Maybe you could plan to spend the next day after "the deed" together. Or at least go out for breakfast together and laugh out the awkwardness if there was any. Just something to make you both feel like everything is still cool between you, even if you are not going to be together as a couple. That way you walk away feeling safe and appreciated. LAST BUT NOT LEAST, make sure you can trust this person not to hurt you once you two are alone. Have a cell phone on you and know where you 2 are at at all times.
2007-04-24 10:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by vada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freaky wierd. But oh, so nice. I had broken my leg that summer. I had a cast from my toes to my upper thigh. I was at a party with friends and they took my crutches and left to hang out in the back yard. This nice girl I knew saw me and came to talk to me. We started making out and she asked me if I wanted to to go to the bedroom. I said yeah! I was a hoppin' no crutch broken leg horney teenager. When we got to the bed I was pretty much only able to be on the bottom so this girl took charge. We did it 3 times with her riding me like...It was incredible. Someone else wanted the room so she found my crutches and we ended up on a couch in the garage and did it again....That's how I lost 'it'.
2007-04-24 10:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embarrassing, annoying, clumsy and quick. Pick a partner with a good deal of patience, 'cause for a guy, it's always better the second time around!
2007-04-24 10:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first time was extremely worrying for me as it followed a sexual harassment ordeal but my boyfriend, who ended up being my husband was very slow and respectful and it was wonderful!
not mind blowing but nice.
we arent together now and i have the most mind blowing sex with my new fella!! woooooooooooo
sorry lol
2007-04-24 10:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
disappointing for both ---- to quick no real stimulation ---- it took time and practice to make a difference --- we were both virgins i hasten to add so that may make a difference ---- the best idea is leave plenty of time and take it slow ---- enjoy
2007-04-24 10:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was reaaaaaal fast. In and over. (it was at church camp... I felt some guilt the next day.)
2007-04-24 10:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"first time" doing what?
2007-04-24 10:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by kc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt embarassed the folowing day.
2007-04-24 10:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by shadi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm it was pretty good...its nothing i could ever forget
2007-04-24 10:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋