I am 24 two years out of school and she is a graduating senior from same school. She had been dating someone else for a while, we are casual but not close friends, we've seen each other only rarely since I grad.
I heard they had broken up and I called her to ask her out last night - I caught her by surprise and found out it was only last wknd that she'd broken up. She sounded pretty stressed out between that and school work, but I asked her out for next weekend anyway. She said she's not looking for anything serious right now but would hang out with me this Sat night. Also, in July she will be moving 3 hrs away for a job.
I really like this girl and I think she thinks I'm funny, smart, and nice. I don't want to push her to rush into anything and am really looking forward to Sat even if it is just to walk around and talk and laugh. Do you think if things go well maybe she'd be open to slowly starting something? I'd like to see if there could be something before she moves.
2007-04-24 03:05:31 · 5 answers · asked by Chad 27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also I understand that when I talked to her it had only been a week, and that might seem a little soon - but we are hanging out this weekend and by then it will be two weeks...I'm hoping that as the week goes along maybe she'll start to think about it a little more and maybe wouldn't mind it developing into something more, if things go well Saturday.
And if not that's okay - but I'm glad/encouraged that she at least wants to hang out with me...and you never know...
2007-04-24 03:20:16 · update #1
expect nothing except a good time --- dont cloud the issue by reading anything into the day --- just enjoy her company and the day itself and see how it goes ---- best wishes
2007-04-24 03:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a good experience for her and at the end of the weekend see if you're invited back for more soon. If she's already committed to moving in July for sure, then there's little hope things will get too sticky. Just enjoy what you get with the first encounter and hope more is to follow with time you have with her.
2007-04-24 03:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with her listen to her. Don't push it she doesn't sound ready and even if you can do 'something' it won't work right now and it will spoil any chance in the future. Decide if you want to build something or get laid.
2007-04-24 03:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt rush into anything just be patient and you neva know what might happen b4 june bt dnt show her that you want to be more than friends for nw give her time to get over her ex then she will slowly come to you. good luck
2007-04-24 03:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by judy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, I take it as you the two elect to casually get to appreciate one yet another greater beneficial.. it is putting out - as you instructed her! So there you bypass, you basically responded your guy or woman question lol.
2016-10-13 08:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by doloris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋