Well, I will start the ball rolling......... It's such a turn on to meet a guy who is genuinely nice and caring....i had this huge crush on a guy, he wasn't even that good looking but he always did sweet stuff like offering me his jacket during cold weather(and being cold himself) and always, always letting me have the bigger share of the umbrella when it's raining (despite me objecting violently ofcourse). And guess what, turns out half the college girl population was eyeing him......anyways share your experiences too. =)
2007-04-24 02:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by Wisdom on a platter 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is so much I could say here, but I will give a little detail into my girlfriend; whom pretty much sums up what turns me on.
Firstly, our ability to talk to each other about everything. I'm 16 and she just turned 17, and our ability to be open about everything from religion to physical contact things, as well as our ability to talk just about anything ranging from the sky to really silly things. I feel that communicating well like that makes everything else we have together even better. The fact that she can make me laugh and be herself around me makes me happy, and the fact I can be myself around her is amazing. To the extent where she doesn't mind me being my guy self (ex. burping a bit). I mean, I'm not saying I'm gross out, be disgusting and annoying type; but just like a simple burp if I'm drinking some Mt. Dew...instead of being like "EWW SO GROSS" like alot of girls, she just kind of laughs and says its cute. That being said, we both also find pure enjoyment in everything about each other. It makes us so much better as a couple to enjoy each others little habits. That is a big turn on, her enjoying what most people would find disgusting or something.
To extend all that, the ability for us to have pure good fun together. Whether we're just walking the park or going to the movies or whatever. To add, the fact we can also enjoy kissing each other and stuff. Its wonderful. That is an obvious turn on for a guy such as me, that she likes kissing and our physical relationship; it makes me happy to know she likes things as much as I do, so that I don't have to feel like I'm alone in being up there and stuff. The experience together makes it all amazing.
I also, enjoy little things. Lying in the hammock watching the stars and seeing clouds moving by and talking about it is just nice. Jumping in puddles together and laughing extensively is so nice. It is also a turn on for me that she enjoys things I do for her. I hate it when other girls take for granted their guy doing something nice for them, and I love how my girlfriend sees the love I have for her through my actions and enjoys everything I do for her simply because she knows I love her.
2007-04-24 02:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn On: Intelligence Turn Off: Bad Attitude
2016-05-17 10:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess almost all the girls can agree with me on this one. We all like guys who are sensitive and emotional. Not the cry babies but its either that or jocks right? So I'd have to say I prefer the quiet sensitive ones. After all, Im a girl and I get too emotional sometimes. && It'd be nice if a guy understood how I felt deep down. And not just "oh i know how you feel babe"...more like "Ive been in the same rutt and I think you should just try not to take it personally..."""
Not a dry guy...Somebody understanding because most of the guys I dated..I was waaayyyy too emotional for them. What'd u expect? IM A GIRL!!
2007-04-24 02:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'll help some. I prefer girls that would talk to me as I talk to them, it can be very annoying when I'm talking to a girl, and they don't say much in return.
Also not all guys go crazy over a hot blonde, like me, I prefer redheads, or brunettes
2007-04-24 02:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by plainguy_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it happens to be like that if a girl is hot then she is probally promiscuous and if is not is not then is probally everything i want except the hot part thats the way life is i had this girl like me for a while which i flirted for a way but i was really interested in her but i was single so i gave her a chance and it was the best decision ever
2007-04-24 02:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence, wit, and humor are what turn me on. A woman with these qualities becomes very sexy to me.
I bet that the guy you're referring to BECAME good-looking to you. Often, our perception of what we see is altered by our perception of the person's inner being.
2007-04-24 02:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm fairly shallow I guess because a girl with a great pair of legs can wrap me around her finger.
2007-04-24 06:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the little things he does like tell me how much he cares about me and the way his eyes look when i walk into the room, and physically his happy trail ;)
2007-04-24 02:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me as cliche as it sounds i like the eyes and the way she would smile, even if she wasnt good looking if she could carry herself and give out a kind atmosphere i would prolly like her
2007-04-24 02:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by A.F.J.D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love it when guys are sweet, caring, cute, and romantic. guys who write love poems rock! oh, and i don't really know why but guys who wear pink turns me on=)
2007-04-24 02:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋