My Boyfriend is my total opposite.
But besides the point, (guys) is talking on the phone boring for guys? thats what my bf claims, but most girls i think enjoy talking on the phone to their bf's. and just for some opinions, do you think its healthy not to talk on the phone everyday, even if you dont see that person that much?
2007-04-24 02:02:13 · 6 answers · asked by lalalaMarissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you kno wut...i got the same problem...ma boyfriend hate talkin on da fone, an he will onlii talk on IM or text.....i think you should go wut i do, an jus forget about it...i let it beat me up for so long...y care so much when he doesnt...try talkin to otha friends dat you enjoy talkin to an stop waitin for him to make a change...
ReeRee
2007-04-24 02:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I don't like talking on the phone, even if it's with my girlfriend. Maybe he doesn't get privacy and people listen in or he prefers to communicate when you are together. Alot of guys like to do things, not just sit there and talk, thats the joy of a relationship, to work with the opposites, it's what makes a reltionship interesting. Once a week on the phone for about 5 minutes is enough for me, maybe your boyfriend is the same
2007-04-24 02:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys hate talking on the phone. some love is just as much as most girls do. there's no rule that says you have to talk to your bf on the phone every single day. it might be too much for your bf. of course, it's another story if you both love talking on the phone. try instant messaging or emailing. you don't need to be in contact with your bf 24/7. good luck!
2007-04-24 02:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personaly dispise talking on the phone lol. the girl i'm seeing now i think gets kind of mad about it but ohh well... not mad just like "what the hell" you know? but I don't talk on the phone every day to her, nor do we see each other that much (maybe twice a week) So to answer, I guess it depends on the guy and the situation your in
2007-04-24 02:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like to keep my phone convos under around 20 minutes or less even to the best of friends. Its just so inpersonal (also i gotta pay my own phone bills). But of course for people who dont have the personal freedom at this stage of their life it may be difficult to just go out and see that person when they please.
Dont take it personally, its just not a guys thing and it might never ever be a guys thing. You may just need to get over it :)
2007-04-24 02:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't enjoy long, drawn out telephone calls. If you want to talk on the phone all day, talk to your girlfriends. When you talking to guys, don't try to involve them in your marathon conversations. It's boring!
2007-04-24 02:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋