tell me how to hurt a total jerk! im fed up with allowing people to hurt me and never get revenge! being bigger than that doesnt pay off! tell me a cold blooded way to make him suffer please!
2007-04-24 01:31:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don’t get hurt your self by bothering too much. The Best thing you can do is ignore. It gives you peace and make others feel bad as they are not getting the response they want.
The biggest punishment you can give to any one is to just ignore and let them feel it.
Have control over your thoughts and you will have the will power.
Happiness is the out come of sharing caring and recognition.
Learn to balance them.
Don’t work out yourself with undue thoughts.
All religions gave us tools of tension management.
In case you need a detailed discussion go through “what is that you want” in web
2007-04-24 01:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by righteducation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeking revenge only keeps your energy tied to that person. The best way to hurt someone is to be indifferent to them and ignore them. Using your time and energy to plan and carry out an action of revenge is only telling them they still matter to you.
Learn from past events, look for the patterns in your life that are causing you to be in relationships where you get hurt. Change those patterns! That is the best revenge....moving on and seeking something better for yourself.
2007-04-24 01:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by CountryLady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around, comes around...is it worth the repercussions to you? You may feel good for a short while after your "revenge" but when it comes back around (and it will) it won't be so much fun.
Be the bigger person and know that whomever is acting like a "jerk" will get theirs...the cosmos doesn't forget, and karma doesn't forgive.
2007-04-24 01:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember karma, well everything a person does to you will always come back on them. Revenge is not a solution because two wrongs won't make it right. The thing that always works for me is to just go to that person's face and tell them how I feel and let it all out, everything I feel. Girl just get grimey don't hold anything back.
2007-04-24 01:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge isn't the best thing to do :/ you may hear that a lot but I was the same way you are. I took revenge on my ex by calling the cops and saying he raped me, and now his life is ruined. He was going to join the military but instead he is in jail being someones *****. If this person is bothering you then ignore them, don't go the immature route and make yourself look selfish.
2007-04-24 01:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Blueee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey remember what goes around comes around,don't let the anger lead you to do crazy stuffs,it shall be well just make sure not to get yourself in a relationship without knowing the goal of your partner first and be sure is got some love 4real for you before involving yourself trust yourself that should work pretty much well
2007-04-24 01:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by wallace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate and revenge is a very low, bad emotion, which destroys our self first then the others. Just forget about that and focus on yourself, make yourself strong and stronger that no one can hurt you anymore.
all the best !!!
2007-04-24 01:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get revenge by living well. Get in shape, get a promotion, be happy.. Do things that make you feel better, and next time he sees you, he'll know he made a mistake..
2007-04-24 09:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Styles Gagan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do...did he cheat on you....if he did y dont u jus let da otha person jus mess wit u an kiss u in front of him, but make sure dat your face expression shows total suprise...and if he is jus being mean to u...u should dumb u lunch all ova his cloths, an let him wear da stince all day! HA! take dat!
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2007-04-24 01:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have a peek into your inside female devil and find a method that is most appropriate. Your experience with him as a boyfriend will assist you as you may have experienced some of his weaknesses.
Every female has it, even the ones that think their "**** don stink"
2007-04-24 01:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋