few months back, a guy friend and i flirted about hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her. I had developed a deep crush on him and we exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I hardly talk to him anymore unless we run in2 each other and just say hi. The thing is he acts mad.
2007-04-24 01:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He understands your feelings and most likely has them for you. He has already worked that out and seen that if he kept on the same path he would end up sleeping with you and blowing his chance at this long distance relationship.
So he has basicly thrown you off track in order to get you to stop liking him, instaid of being direct and honest with you. Its cowardly to be honest but that is the way he deals with things by the looks.
It may be impossible for you to talk to him about this because he will also see that talking about it would probally end up going that way also, but if you can talk it though. Talk about your feelings for each other and this future he sees with this long distance engagement of his.
If he is unwilling to break off his engagement then forget about persuing him, you will just waste your time and your heart on him. Break your ties with him and move on, you will be better off for it.
2007-04-24 01:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you probably got too serious for him and scared him off. Forget about him. Besides he almost cheated on his fiance, what do you want with a guy like him anyway..
2007-04-24 08:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is guilty for cheating on his GF and finding out a coworker is not the best ....outlet...
Move on it was a fling, not worth your time.
2007-04-24 08:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's a psycho., nomore words to say move on gal.............
2007-04-24 08:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by raven t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋