i know a boy from last eight years. in fact my family and his know each other very well for last 25 years. we have been regularly communicating with each other whenever we get a chance to do so and exchanging our ideas.
i had asked him about marrying me, to which he replied in negation. then i stopped communicating with him. but after some days he approached my brother with some difficulty and again managed to start conversation with me. he even gifted me. can it be so that he has changed his decision? is it possible that he now wants to marry me?
2007-04-24 01:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might want to
you never ask a guy to marry you
they ask You
2007-04-24 01:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you scared him a little when you asked him about marrying you. Now that you're both back on speaking terms, why don't you try to take things a little slower this time? I know that you've known him for 8 years and your family has known him for many more, but perhaps that was just the "friendship groundwork". You probably know alot about him (his likes and dislikes) and now it may be time to take your relationship in a new (and more serious) direction. I wouldn't mention marriage again though ... it seems that most men don't like to feel like they're being controlled and he may have thought you were taking things way too fast. Enjoy the fact that you're talking again and take the time to enjoy each other's company as well. It is very possible that a good friendship may turn into a happy marriage as well, you just need to take it step by step. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-24 01:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by girlfromunited 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better you dont force anyone to love you dear...........
See as you said you kept a good relation of eight years communicating and exchanging ideas etc.
You must have loved him but he doesnt love you as a lover but as a best friend. maybe he likes your friendship.
love and friendship are two different things.
Maybe he needs your friendship because he is used to it . and considers you as his dearest friend and he doesnt want to lose you at any cost.
So i would suggest dont keep predicting things ...
The best thing is go to him and apologise him for mistaking friendship with love and make him your best best friend.See how you hurt him by not communicating with him.
you are lucky you have sincere, caring and loving friend like him. Thank him for being your friend, After all you know each other family for 25years, love should never be forced because it would be love just some commitment or adjustment which will bring no happiness. you cant marry a friend you will get a good lover. Dont worry dear
But dont ever lose this friend.Gifting you is making you happy and realize you mistake, he has forgiven you for your mistake.
and doesnt want to make you ashamed since you committed it . Admit it and become best friends.Come on after all best friend is a biggest gift. He had all the freedom and has not taken any single step to annoy you or to use you.
Exchanging ideas and chatting doesnt mean love...
love is something different... you will get one ...ok
2007-04-24 01:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by janam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready for marriage, but he likes u, and want to keep talking and communicating with u. Maybe he is your best friend, and if u don't be too pushy about marriage, he may fall in love with u. Give him time and space, and he may come back to u.
2007-04-24 02:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so he wants to marry u but
definitely he wants his old friendship i will say or the time he used to spend with u back
if u really want him wat u should do now is forget the marrying thing for sometime show attitude in a gud way
be caring be friendly but till a certain limit
let him get attracted to u
then think of marriage
2007-04-24 01:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you scared him off with the topic of marriage. Some people aren't ready for committment.
2007-04-24 01:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you dated this boy at all? You left out way too much in order for me to answer this question.
2007-04-24 01:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop day dreaming. He doesn't want to marry you ever. He is just being friendly, thats all.
2007-04-26 18:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily.might be that he doesnt want to leave u as a friend.or is thinking that this cut off would negatively affect the family relations.
2007-04-27 03:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he had any change of mind. If he says yes then be happy, if he says no then dont be sad. Be a good friend of his.
2007-04-24 01:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋