I am 17 years old and I like this boy and he is 17 as well, but he likes my 12 year old sister. I know that she likes him a little bit and she don’t go out with him because she knows how much I like him (me and my sister are very close) and she also don’t go out with him because she don’t trust him that much. When I tell people this they usually say that I should get over him, but it’s hard, not to get over him tho but to forget this situation which I find humiliating. I don’t think I like him as much as I used to, because I think he’s very immature for his age. The thing is I need advice because I wanna put a full stop on this and carry on with my life. For my own good what should I do? (he’s a really good friend so I like him a lot)
2007-04-24 00:39:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holy crap! Where are your parents?!?
A 12 year old shouldn't even be considering 'going out' w/someone. And why in the world would any 17 year old think that a 12 year old is competition? Are you sure you're not really 13?
2007-04-24 00:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is far too young to be entertaining thoughts of seeing this guy and you, as a big sister, should tell her that you want her to stay away. You should also forget any interest in this boy because not only does he "like" someone else but the someone else he likes is too young for him.
Move on and ask your sister to do the same. You'll be glad you did.
2007-04-24 07:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any 17 year old who is interested in a 12 year old needs counseling. I'd say your sister is right on the money when she says she doesn't trust him. You both need to get this loser out of your lives and move on to someone with more integrity and dignity. Don't fall for anything this dude says, it's all lies, trust me.
2007-04-24 07:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by usmcmama826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now the best thing for you to minimize what your feeling is to stop thinking about him. Every time that he pops into your head, get yourself to do something that will force it out, that is of course if you really want to forget about him. Feelings come and go, but the more you think about it the more they stay with you. Hang out with your other friends or maybe with your sister or other members of your family. Just try to do something to make you not think about him.
2007-04-24 07:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by mack-mack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1... ewe gross!!
2... remember he's a perv. That should help.
3... if he was really your friend he'd know how you feel.
4...if he was really your friend he'd leave your sister alone.
5...You already know he's immature. That should also help.
6...You're young & you'll get over this sooner than you think.
7...Stop hanging around him and hang out with other friends.
8...Go make new friends and meet new "mature" guys.
9...Go do stuff with your sister so she knows there's no hard feelings over this.
2007-04-24 07:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love this boy, but in return he may know that he don't love you couse that your not his type, and your sister is too young for a 17 year old.
2007-04-24 07:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Neal C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your own good you need to let him know that this friendship isn't working out.....time to move on*
Why would a 17yr old who's almost an adult ...be interested in a 12yr old.?? You need to stop having him around and move on with your life* GOODLUCK*
2007-04-24 07:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is just be a good friend and try and keep your relationship as friends..
who really wants to waste their time on someone who isn't interested in you..
you'll find a boy who likes you for you
2007-04-24 07:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a problem. u should think of ursel. if u like him ask him out, if u dnt thn find another man, ask ur sis wot u should do as u sound close. she may help u more.
2007-04-24 07:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he has a age problem there...
2007-04-24 07:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by bechendry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋