Just wondered what some unexpected issues were after moving in together? We communicate well, I just assume there are going to be things I don't consider that maybe I could/should address.
2007-04-24 00:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just the basic differences of opinions. The major change will be that you have to come to a compromise, because if you don't you will be miserable.
To clean or not to clean, what to eat, how much money to spend, how to keep track of expenses, who does laundry and when will it be done, who cooks, who cleans kitchen, all chores, etc..., what style and color of furniture, who gets to take their shower first in the morning--oh-no you didn't leave me any hot water!!, how often and what friends may visit.
Mainly just being considerate of each other.
By the way, that toilet seat thing is very important!!! I have seen people have major arguments over that!!
2007-04-24 00:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like with any live in relationship, whether it is a friend or a lover. In the beginning there is a lot of getting use to each other. You have to adjust to each others habits, moods and their way of living. As long as you compromise and meet each other 50/50 you will do just fine. It takes a lot work in a relationship though because you are sharing the most intimate part of each others lives. So trust is a very important factor. Trust is the most important thing to work on. If you have that then the rest will fall into place.
2007-04-24 00:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything
joy, drama
you have to remember that when you put yourself into a relationship, you have to be ready to deal with joy and drama and you know the thing that can make it well living space and more love: it communication and it just nice that you guys communicate well.
Keep up the communication, tell her what you want and what you feel and she should do the same.
I see that you are a little affraid but I you will be fine, moving in together is something we will all try in our life and this will be your turn and try not to take it too serious and enjoy the moment while you can and don't worry about the rest.
2007-04-24 02:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all my bf was actually suppose to be my roommate
Ok now for your question I'm a really laid back kind of girl i dont moan about the toilet seat being up etc
But when my bf gets himself a drink he tends to leave the water bottle or the soft drink bottle outside and doesn't put it back into the fridge, ok now this didn't bother me until one day when he had left the bottles outside again and he asked me to bring him the water and guess what it was warm and what happened he shitted on my head for it being warm so now i will throw a tantrum when he doesn't put the bottles back into the fridge
2007-04-24 02:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
household chores - how each person's way of doing is different from the other.
how much sex we should have
personal habits - toothpaste cap on or off, toilet seat up or down, squeexue toothpaste from the centre or end of teh tube
2007-04-24 00:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Household chores like picking up stuff, dishes, cleaning, etc. Also, toilet seat comes up sometimes. Lol.
2007-04-24 00:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience with one another is a very important.know when to speak and when not to.and just be assertive.
2007-04-24 00:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there are some changes...
2007-04-24 00:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by imsupersavannahxxi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
higher food bills....
2007-04-24 00:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by bechendry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋