My son is getting violent because of Naruto and Power Rangers. Whenever we stop him from watching those shows, he throws his tantrums.
2007-04-23 19:33:50 · 26 answers · asked by mars 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
This is one of the subjects me and my wife are experts on. We have 2 kids - 6 years boy and 3.5 years girl. They watch TV 30 minutes a week (Animal Planet) and one full Disney movie a week on Sundays. The rest of the time they are occupied with educational toys, projects and games, which all are specially designed for kids, fun, involve active participation and problems solving from their side. They play outside for a few hours a day with other kids, catch insects for their 'scientific' observations and so on. They are not bored at all, develop balanced and understand life in the real light and not through the video games or whatever TV offers them for passive time spending. Educational toys are our expertise and all toys and games, that we buy for our kids are from 1888Toys.com the site, which has only developmental and educational, but at the same time fun and encouraging. Hope this will help you and good luck.
2007-04-23 19:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by The Papa Of Two 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How old is your son? Tantrums could be a part of the stage he is at.
Having said that, you are the parent and consistency is the answer. If young he will not understand why some times its OK and others its not.
If he throws a tantrum DO NOT EVER GIVE IN!!!!!! That will only re-enforce that that bad behavior works - it gets him what he wants. You are the parent and you have to be in control of the situation. It is hard to say no to your little ones but you, as a parent, are obliged to set him on the right path. And do not treat violence with violence - all that teaches him is the bigger bully wins.
How to stop him watching it? Turn the set off, keep the remote out of his reach, and make consequences (and keep them) if he does watch when you say no.
And be patient, this stage doesn't last forever.
2007-04-23 19:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He throws tantrums? Let him throw his tantrums!
Just turn off the TV and let him go at it. Soon he'll realize no matter how much of a fit he throws you will not allow him to watch those shows. When the throws them just put him in his room and tell him when he's done to come out and see you. Then explain to him why he can't watch the show and it's over. If it happens the next day...repeat. Best of Luck!
2007-04-24 01:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by .vato. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just switch the tv off, put a lock on the tv(sometimes possible with the remote), I have the same problem with Power Rangers with my son. Let him have his tantrums for a few days and he will soon forget and go on to something new. Make a treat for good behavior to let him watch the tv, and encourage a different channel.
2007-04-23 22:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by harls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my kid was getting violent from watching a TV show, I'd turn off the television and tell him to go outside and play. My kids only watch the Little People movies and Baby Einstein, stuff like that. And if one of my boys ever throws a tantrum they go and tantrum alone in their room.
2007-04-23 19:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by BobTheBlazer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When my son started acting out tv shows such as Power Rangers and Spiderman, I banned them. He stomped and whined (he learned before he was two that tantrums only land him in more trouble) but I told him that he was not old enough to watch that show and until he could prove he was old enough, that show was banned. Now, he is six, and he can watch those shows without acting it out. Once he understood that there was a way for him to earn the right back, he was much more willing to try.
2007-04-27 18:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by karanat77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our kids are allowed to watch 1 video or DVD a day once their schoolwork and chores are done. (Even the 3-year has chores, like wash a wall or fold dish towels.) Beyond that they can earn more time by doing extra chores, reading, exercising ect. We generally leave the TV off during the morning and they can watch something in the afternoon. No TV after dinner, unless its a special family movie night or something.
The boys didn't have any trouble adapting to the new rules 2 years ago. They all have to agree on the video or they watch nothing, so they've learned to make fair choices and it seems they make better choices on what they watch. Less fluff.
I'd just agree with your spouse about when to implement the changes you want and have a family meeting. Then do it. You'll probably have to remind him for a month or so but it will be worth it.
2007-04-23 19:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by imamom4god 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW we know who rules your house. Turn off the tv and tell him to get over it. His behaviour shows he is not capable of watching these shows and behaving like a good member of society. Throws a tantrum then take away a toy and continue to do this he will soon stop
2007-04-23 20:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Limit his t.v time, get him to spend more time outside, or reading, drawing, playing with lego etc.. if he throws a tantrum that's where you as the parent ned to come in and discipline him, i dont mean smack him or beat him etc, but you need to let him know that throwing a tantrum isn't going to get him anywhere, so put him in his room until he's stopped or walk away and ignore him.. be consistent with your method.. if you have to just pull out the power plug and take the remotes away.. he'l get the message eventually as long as you stay firm and consistent
2007-04-23 19:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by jarellsmom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Who's the adult? Let him throw tantrums. Eventually, when those techniques don't get him what he wants he will stop. Stay tough. If you give in you will be teaching him to act like a monster to have his way, and when he is 16, you will be sorry. When he is married his wife will be sorry.
2007-04-27 16:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by chillsister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋