How do you get a girl to leave you alone?

Question

We went on one date and now I cant get rid of her. I told her that it just wasnt going to work out between us and now she wont stop calling me and bothering me. She is driving me crazy. Im not a mean person but Im really getting to the point of telling her off if she doesnt stop bothering me all the time.

I just told her to stop calling me and now she keeps im'ing me and texting me. It is getting extremely old and I cant take it anymore.

Answer 1

- Don't answer / return her calls
- Don't go / hang out where she might be
- Don't give her mixed messages (i.e. use her for booty calls)
- Don't talk to her any more / totally ignore her if you run into her
- Block her calls/Block her emails
...She'll get the hint...If not get a restraining order!

Answer 2

Well, you would hope that a lack of response to her calls would be an obvious sign. Does she really know you don't want her to contact you anymore, or did you make it seem like you could be friends, just nothing else.

She probably likes you so much, that if she feels like she can be a really good friend, that something may happen down the road, but she is letting her other feelings get in the way of that.

It's one thing to be friends, and play it cool in hopes that something more can happen later on, but it sounds like she is just being stalker-ish.

If she keeps calling, I would seriously just tell her. As hard as it might be, you will be doing her a favor. Just be nice about it and say, "look, I am cool with being friends, but please stop calling/texting me all of the time. It makes me feel uncomfortable..."

Something like that.

Answer 3

That's all you gotta do is tell her off. She's probably getting the vibe that maybe you still like her, since you haven't exactly told her it's completely over. Once you tell her straight out, start ignoring her phone calls. If you never answer, she'll stop calling. Good luck with it!

Answer 4

let her down as easily as possible. do not tell her it's because she isn't attractive or you don't like her....it will hurt her deeply, a hurt that will probably last a long time. if you have to, make up an excuse, like you're getting back together with an ex or you're just way too busy with work/school. if all else fails, just quit answering her calls and quit talking to her altogether. she should eventually leave you alone.

Answer 5

Dont be mean to her. Just let her know that youre not interested in her or being friends with her. Maybe she just wants to know why. Thats always a big one. Its easier if she knows. Hope that helps:)

Answer 6

Maybe you could just explain to her that you need your space and remind her that you don't think the two of you would work out. If she doesn't get the hint then who knows....maybe she needs to get told off to realize it.

Answer 7

Tell her you'll get a restraining order if she doesn't stop bothering you. Also,,,say it really serious like (with raised voice),,hehehhee This should do it!! Good luck to you!

Answer 8

Tell her to stop calling, since your not interested. Then, don't take her calls any more.

Answer 9

just be honest with her even if it seems rude. if she dont get the picture after that then maybe u need a more strong approach to her. just tell her your not interested in going further with her and if she dont stop u will completely ignore her. idk. i hope u figure out something without hurting her.

Answer 10

Change you phone number or when she calls hang up.If she is wacky you are going to have to be rude.