Where do I meet women in my league?

Question

This is gonna sound stupid but... I'm a pretty attractive guy, like 8 out of 10. My problem is I can't really date women that are 8 to 10 range because they are too high maintanence or superficial for me. And less attractive women don't trust me because they think I'm a player and too attractive to be into them. Whats a guy to do?

Answer 1

Ahh, I am in the same situation that you are in. I think that girls that aren't too good looking aren't even worth my time, but the girls that look like they are a 8-10 are always hard to get. Girls that are 8-10 aren't all high maintence, but most of them are. If you get a college degree and get a good job or once you start making lots of money, getting the 8-10's won't be hard at all. Once they know you have money, they'll be running to you. You never know, one day you could meet someone that is in your league.

Answer 2

Sorry. That is hard. People usually end up with people who are equally attractive. I don't trust men who are significantly more attractive than me. In fact, the men I am attracted to, other women do not find attractive which I think is just fine by me.

Are you positive that you are so attractive? I mean, sometimes people get an inflated perception.

Answer 3

Try to pick a woman to date by the sound of her voice. Do it with your eyes shut. I'm probably an 8, or maybe a 7, I don't know, I don't rate myself you know, and my man is probably a 9. If a girl is insecure with you, it have nothing to do with what you look like.

Or what she looks like even.

Answer 4

maybe try finding a girl you really really really like and dont make it look like you could be into any other girls you know??? just find one girl and stick with her and then she will grow to trust you

Answer 5

Three words:
Get...over...yourself!