Ok well theres this girl ive liked for a while, and im a sophomore shes a freshman. Our families are good friends, and her mom said to my mom that she likes me a lot, but b/c shes never had a boyfriend, she wants to hang out jus friends for a while. Does this mean that she wants to get to know me better in a romantic way or what? Like what should I do, b/c i def. like her a lot.
2007-04-23 13:29:52 · 9 answers · asked by Tommy T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like the young lady's mom wants you two to hang out platonically as opposed to romantically. This also sounds like it is temporary...since she likes you and your 'rents are friends, everyone knows everyone and you shouldn't foresee any problems moving the romance to the next level.
It is normal for her mom to be cautious and to want to protect her daughter while she experiences her first boyfriend. This is especially true because you are a year older than her. Matters of the heart are quite delicate. She just wants you guys to take it slow - that's all.
2007-04-23 13:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that you found out a week after you had sex with him that you were pregnant. First and foremost conception occurs within 24 hours or so but implantation takes anywhere from 5-10 days give or take a day. So if you had sex with him a week before you found out you were pregnant and that is the only time you had sex with him then this isn't his baby. You need to think about who else you might have slept with in the last month or so to figure it out who the father could be. Don't go scaring this guy when he more than likely isn't the father. Do the math things aren't adding up here, either this is a typo or you are being serious if you are being serious then I highly doubt this guy you are telling is the father REALLY is the father. Good luck
2016-04-01 04:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the best relationships have developed from friendships. I know you like her as more than a friend but just go with the flow. She wants to see what you're like as a person with no romantic pressure. Thats not a bad thing. Just respect her wishes, be friends and see how things go.
2007-04-23 13:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by pink.jazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl thats never had a boyfriend to, and when she say's that she just wants to hang got. she mean it, she just wants to get to know u better not in a romantic way but as a friend she wants to know ur true intentions with her she wants to know if u are one of those guys that would brake her heart.
2007-04-23 13:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by crazypggirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advise I can give you is to talk to her. Tell her how you feel about her. The worst that could happen is that she'd just want a simple friendship, and friendships quite often turn into something more once you get to know each other. So what do you have to lose?
2007-04-23 13:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Shanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you go around together as freinds and see how it goes from their as she has never been out with any other boys before she needs time to get to know you and a lot of the strongest relationships start with freindship she must realy like you or she would not want to know in the first place so give her the time she needs and don't rush her
2007-04-24 01:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy, dude ; I'm kinda in the same problem except I'm the girl. I would call her and offer to hang out this weekend. Then when y'all get to be friends, ask her out. Good Luck!
2007-04-23 13:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sha-Sha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE MAY WHAT TO HANG OUT FOR A WHILE. GIVE HER TIME SHE'LL COME AROUND.
2007-04-23 13:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by toni w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm..
2007-04-23 13:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ballerina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋