Theres this really popular guy at school that I really really like. But since he has a lot of friends that are girls, and I’m not popular at all, is there any chance that he will like me?
2007-04-23 13:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by labbalabba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, I really just want to be straight with you, so here it is. I'm not the most popular guy at my school either, I mean sure I've got lots of friends, a couple who are girls, but even though some of these friends who are girls are popular, I don't hold any fantasies of going out with them. Popularity seeks other popularity, it's a sort of gift and a curse I guess. It's almost like they need to be with other popular people to assure themselves their popular, I don't really know. It just seems to happen like that. It's not that their bad people, and I'm sure that this guy wouldn't be a jerk if you talked to him, but I'm also not going to give you the fairytale "Anything's possible if you just believe..." Sorry if this hurts, but if it makes you feel any better I know exactly how you feel, I've had more than my share of girls who are just out of my reach, and I know how it stinks to be in that position. Sorry again, I just wanna give you my opinion. There's always a chance, but not always a good one.
2007-04-23 13:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by themastersensei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever read Cinderella. It does sort of work that way in reality (you know, minus the magic the 3 evil stepsisters women being cleaning slaves and almost everything but the core values of the fairytale). If the spark is there it wont matter if your popular or anything. :)
2007-04-23 20:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok little bit of advice from a older man hun a guy like that is popular and cute yes but in all problity you and him woild not last long cuse a guy like that is still thinking with the brain betwen his leg,s not his heart or his head yes i know he,s cute and you probaerly dream about him but do you think he would want you for the same reasion,s you want him popular boy,s are just that but for the most part thire all show find your self a good guy one who want to be with you thire out thire you know if you look or maby he will find you
2007-04-23 20:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this all depends on the guy, if hes a shallow guy that doesnt really care about feelings or anything like that then probably not, but if hes a caring guy then you should just talk to him. if something sparks let him know how you feel, but dont just walk up to him and tell him you like him. he mite find you strange after that lol
2007-04-23 20:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Niki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything could happen. but how is it possible to not be popular at all? do you not have friends?
2007-04-23 20:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by petraitytė ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible.
2007-04-23 20:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you talk to him
2007-04-23 20:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋