First off, yes, I am in high school. lol Second, the question: I am madly, very madly in love with a girl that I have known since 10th grade. Now, I'm in 12th. The problem is we go to different schools, so we don't see each other too much. But, we do go to the same health club (we bump into each other at least once a month) Anyways, we've known each other for like two years, but we have never hung out, despite me asking her many times if she wanted to do something: a movie, iceskating, diner, whatever.. Everytime I ask she tells me shes soooooo busy BUT that she would LOVE to hang out sometime. Most times, she says that she can't do anything, sometimes she says she might be able to, and then never lets me know (I'll call her to see if she can or cant and she just wont pick up) Now here comes my question: i bumped into her at the health club over the weekend, we hadn't seen each other for like 3 months. Should I try calling her? Write her a letter? Or forget about her?
2007-04-23 13:10:55 · 13 answers · asked by ireallyhatelife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she gave you the signs but it seems hard to do but try to forget
2007-04-23 13:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the looks of things, she's playing you, and either she doesn't want you or she might have found somebody else. You might want to either be by yourself and wait or go be with somebody else. Just don't do anything. The less attention you give a female, the more she'll think about you if she's ready to be with you. Doing anything will just drive her away even further- something called being a borderline stalker. So just have fun by yourself, even if you are at the same places where she is. When you have the upper hand, she'll start coming around more often. Good luck man.
2007-04-23 13:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by whatcanmaxdo4u?everythingupscant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me either she is reeeaalllyyy buisy or she is really good at avoiding people. You may wanna give her a call and break it down for her. Explain to her where your at (you can leave the part out about loving her).
If she is still playing games then it might be an idea to forget about her and move on, it doesnt matter how much you love her if you cant see her then she aint worth it.
Good hunting :)
2007-04-23 13:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that she isn't really that interested in you. I know it sucks and I'm sorry, but if she has been blowing you off and not answering your calls for the past two years, she's probably trying to tell you she is not interested. It might be hard at first, but I think you should forget about her and when you meet the right girl you'll be really happy you weren't chasing a lost cause.
2007-04-23 13:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you won't want to read this but... it's sounds like she isn't interested in you the way you like her. I think you should try to move on, as tough as it is, you have to try. Don't devote your life to one girl while your still young. You still have your whole life to live, and many other girls to love. There is someone for everyone, but sometimes there are two or more. Which means there are more choices out there, so don't tie yourself down yet. Hope it works out for you.
2007-04-23 13:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about her. The fact that she always happen to be "so busy" is enough for you that you should see she's only playing games. I know it sucks, something similar happened to me recently, but that's how I know what to say. If she keeps making up excuses, she's just not worth your time.
2007-04-23 15:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have friends like that (not my girlfriend). its annoying. so what i do is just stay friends with them at school. i love talking to them then, and we always talk about hanging out but it never happens. ive given up by now. so i'd have to suggest moving on to a different girl. besides, your a senior, prolly moving away next year. then you'll find someone worth the fight
2007-04-23 13:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her they go for it. If it doesn't work out you can always forget about her later. If you forget later you at least wont feel bad for not trying harder.
Hope this helps :]
2007-04-23 13:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about her if she liked you she would have gone out with you from the start! just let her go!! find a new girl!!!
2007-04-23 13:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pardonne Moi Reborn♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Write her a letter.
2007-04-23 13:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋