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Is it? I don't think so.
Would most men feel threatened if their fiancee or wife had more experience than they do?
I think I know the answers to these questions, I just wanted to know what you all thought.

2007-04-23 12:51:22 · 31 answers · asked by curiogirl84 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

I think that depends on who you're expecting to marry.

If you come from a highly conservative and religious background, and intend on settling on a woman from a similar background, then it would be more likely that your wife remains a virgin on your wedding night. However, in most cases, I would believe it is very unrealistic to expect a woman to wait until then, unless the opportunity never presented itself to her prior to that. ;)

To answer your second question...

A major difference in experience can be a little awkward for both parties, but that's kind of a question better looked at on a person-by-person basis, since everyone reacts to situations differently. If you're worried about a woman having more experience than you do, then yes, it will probably make you feel threatened. On the other hand, if you come into a sexual relationship thinking about the present rather than the past, I would assume you'll have a much better time...

2007-04-23 13:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by alkalinekidd 3 · 1 0

That depends.

I would hope that by the time you plan to marry a girl, you'd know if she's a virgin or not. But, whatever, I guess some people don't bother to ask their life partner if they've ever been with another man or not.

Is it realistic? That depends. You should ask before you get married, I'll just say that.

Also, it does depend on where you live. Communities that are more conservative and out of the city tend to have an oldschool way of thinking; no premarital sex. Whereas urban communities just don't give a damn. So, there are more than 1 factor playing a role.

2007-04-23 12:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0 0

I'm a female, and I would personally feel a little odd if I had more experience than my boyfriend... I would probably almost feel a little guilty. Weird, huh? However, I don't think that people should expect a woman to be a virgin on her wedding night. I think that it's important to make love and be intimate before getting married, and to know each other as well as possible before committing to each other for life.

2007-04-23 12:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would say it is a very realistic option.

However, most likely it won't happen.
Some teenagers are out having sex like animals.
However there are those kids who do stay true to their word and keep their virginity.

It's a 3 to 4 chance I would say.


I have every intention of staying a virgin until after marriage. I think it would make "that moment" much more special and meaningful to me.

2007-04-23 12:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

It defiantly is possible to marry a virgin but hopefully one marries for love regardless how much or little experience someone has. I do know several girls who were virgins on their wedding night or their husband was their first and only.

2007-04-23 13:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 1 0

No, it's not realistic to expect that, at least not anymore. Premarital sex is no longer seen as taboo in modern society. However, men, especially those who are more prone to insecurity, probably feel threatened if their fiancee or wife was more experienced, partly because it's embarrassing to admit that one's not that great in bed.

2007-04-23 12:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nick 3 · 0 1

It's not realistic in todays society, it would be nice though. Everything in this society revolves around sex, even in the past decades, which seems weird if you think about it.... but its getting to the point where people have sex just to have it, they don't have a real meaning to it. And thats why I'm not having any daughters.....

2007-04-23 12:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

What annoys me is the double standards thing... why should men have many experiences before marriage and yet still expect that the girl should be a virgin?

2007-04-23 12:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

i married a virgin (i was one as well) and it was not something i would want to repeat --- it takes time and practice (with a single partner) to really explore the depths of passion that can be had --- no i would not feel threatened if my lady has more experience than me --- best wishes

2007-04-23 13:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0 0

I think being a virgin should be the least of anyone's worries. The most important is how you feel about someone.

2007-04-23 12:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 1 1

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