my bf doesnt have enough time for me?

Question

I had a crush on my best friend Tim for 5 years. About 2 years ago, i met this other guy, Mitch, & i really likd him, & i stopped liking Tim. Finally, Mitch asked me out. & I have dated him for 2 yrs, & he is a good bf, but since feb. i have only talked to him a few times, because his parents dont lik me because they think i am a slut, (i am one of the most innocent PG rated people you will meet, so that makes no sense) anyways he isnt allowed to call me on the phone and he is very involved in sports, so i dont see him during the day very much. basically he doesnt have enough time for me and so i have been hanging out with Tim more, & at first i didnt care, but as i saw less of Mitch & more of Tim, i found myself starting to lik Tim again. All of my friends want me to break up with mitch & go for tim, but i know i will never get a relationship out of tim, so that is pointless. and i do still lik mitch when he is around (i told him he isnt there enough, but he just said "srry im busy"

Answer 1

Curious why you don't think you'll get a relationship out of tim? As far as mitch goes, relationships do that alot during the teen years, don't be upset with yourself. But its time to breck that off. Now I wish I know more about you and tims history, how good of a guy he is, smart, caring? Ether way frineds can make great lovers, but great lovers rarly ever make it to being friends. Which is important to any deep relationship that there be a friendship there.... but yea mitch is leaving behind his life with you, for a life without you. Might not of been his fault, we don't get to make all the descisions at that age.... maybe one last good conversation with him to set your mind and heart at rest?