its really awkward.....what do i do?

Question

okay so my ex bf used to say he hated me and everyone said it was just his way of letting go and hed probablly end up liking me again that that was what he does. and now, a month later, he is acting like my friend again and sticking up for me callin my name and just hangin out with me and the funny thing is when we are in the hallway he looks over people to look at me. and al lmy friends that are his friends to say he still likes me and we are supposed to be friends again but it awkward when he flirts with me. what do i do i want to be friend but it gets really awkward.

Answer 1

You need to ask yourself first what caused you two to change, to fall back, to leave. That is something only you know the answer to. Step back and look at it from all angles. You said that he used to say that he "hated you". Why? Why would someone who is supposed to believe in you, support you and encourage you say those words? Personally, you need to talk to him. Conversation is key in any relationship, because that is how you grow and learn together. Otherwise, you will be stuck wondering and never getting a real answer. Anyways, good luck and I hope all is well.

Answer 2

no offense, but your ex seems like he is a little immature. he tells everyone he hates you and now its all good? i think you should be very careful letting him back into your heart. if you just want to be friends, without the flirting, then you just need to tell him that.

Answer 3

Best thing to do is to play with him,act like you don't care if he is around or not.If you really want this boy to like you,play the game like I said.If you do this he will develop strong feelings for you,assuming that is what you want.

Answer 4

dont give this loser the time of day. If his way of destressing is verbally abusing you, then he isnt even worth your friendship.