im about to be a senior in highschool and i have never been kissed by a girl or even had a girlfriend, i mean i feel so lonely, im a shy guy among the opposite sex, i see everyone kissing around the school and all the hugging and i want to experience that, no girls ever talk to me, and the one that did talked to me asked me if i was gay (totally embarrasing!) Dog man i aint no what to do, i feel so alone i want to have a girl SOOO bad man, and i dont mean sex fool i mean have a companion a girl who would be there for me, am i ugly, whats wrong with me!
heres my pic
http://www.kensingtonlions.org/2006/South/Mims,-Terry.png
2007-04-23 12:32:19 · 28 answers · asked by tightguy35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are really kind of cute i would definatly go out with you.
2007-04-23 12:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Pink_n_Proud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not ugly. You are probably just shy. My brother in law is 19 and has never had a girlfriend either. He is very shy and doesn't know how to approach girls. Maybe you could start conversation up with some girls. If you make the first move toward something it might work. Have one of your guy friends hook you up. People like to stereotype other people (about you being gay). Just ignore it. Look on the bright side...at least you aren't a player.
2007-04-23 12:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Mommyof3♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not ugly. Everybody is beautiful, nobody is ugly. Maybe some girls are just intimidated by you because they think you have someone else. Nothing is wrong with you, when the time comes you'll find the right girl that will love you and want to be with you. Being single doesn't have to be so bad though. I mean, just have fun being single! Not that being in a relationship is bad or anything, but just play the field. Eventually, you'll find the right girl. If not, then enjoy the single life! Hope this helps!
2007-04-23 12:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't look ugly to me. Don't feel bad about not having a girlfriend right now. I'm 19 and I didn't have my first girlfriend until about 6 months ago. I know what you mean about feeling lonely in high school, and seeing other people dating and stuff, I was pretty shy myself in high school, but trust me, don't worry about it too much. The right girl will come along at some point, and you have plenty of time to worry about it. Let it happen on it's own...don't try to find a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend, wait until you meet someone you are really interested in. If you have met someone, talk to her...be confident, ask her out for dinner and a movie or something. Whatever happens, you have plenty of time to meet the right girl, so don't worry too much about it right now. Good luck!
2007-04-23 12:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not ugly and there is nothing wrong with you. I'm 30 and I've only had one boyfriend. Don't feel bad. Sometimes girls wait for the man to make the first move. Some women like to be the prey and not the hunter. Take the aggressive approach. Just start talking to a young lady. Be confident in yourself. Don't worry about being rejected. You're a nice looking young man. Just start talking to some young ladies, but be patient with them. Some of us prefer to let things develop slowly.
2007-04-23 12:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were describing me when I was a senior, so your not alone. I was quiet and I kept to myself but I would talk to anyone that talked to me and I was pretty nice. I finally did meet a girl at the most unexpected time during my senior year, my first girlfriend. It was a great experience and I learned a lot and totally got used by her. If you dont try to find anyone then your not, but if you try you will cuz it don't matter what you look like or whats your deal is. I will say this though, be patient, watch out for those girls that like money or look high maintenance because they will get you good.
2007-04-23 12:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not ugly at all. It's just that males tend to be more dominate then females so you should approach the female first. Have you found someone that sparks your interest? Well, if she does sparks your interest and you have something in common take that move slowly, ask her out on a date to like the ice cream parlor or a movies...you know that type of thing. Also, it could be that your looking for the wrong kind of females...if your just looking for the pretty ones....the ones that are popular...well that's what your going to get...snobby. Try a girl that no one will go after......But make her feel special... Unpopular girls are always the nicest.
2007-04-23 12:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Asia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your picture, and i don't think your ugly.. You said your shy around women, Is there someone at you school that you like? If she doesn't have a boyfriend ask her if you can sit with her at lunch. Talk to her and find out what she likes. Be a friend to her. As your friendship develops, she will most likely think of you as more then a friend. One more thing, NEVER rush a woman into a relationship!! If she feels it's moving to fast for her to control, She'll slam the door on you quick..Best of luck..
2007-04-23 12:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi :) there's no longer something incorrect with u :):) till 20 i even have not had a boy pal too :):) so there's no longer something incorrect with that :) i think of there no connection between solid looking n having somebody such as you or in love with u, permit's say in case you have an extremely good-looking face of direction many woman will chase after u yet do you somewhat think of that ladies folk like u basically the way u are? Many solid looking human beings have a foul courting. So this is basically no longer a level :) basically be the way u are ok ? ;)and you will come across a woman :):) Cheer
2016-12-16 13:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not ugly. Try to meet girls from other places than school. Put yourself out there more, maybe dress a little differently, change your hair, or attitude. Some girls cannot tell between the real men and the losers. You are not a loser and you will find a girl soon. Just wait for the right one and dont rush it!
2007-04-23 12:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by Chanel707 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep waiting man, the perfect girl is out there. You just keep being your self and don't feel down, thats dumb. l know that nobody wants to be alone, but you just have to be yourself and have confidence in you. Don't go telling your pals to find a girl for you either, thats even more sad, you can do it bro. Don't look down man, keep going forward.
Good Luck
2007-04-23 13:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋