to bring my wife back and nothing.my children deserve a whole family.my ex is on a ego high.she had gastric bypass surgery and now thinks she can have anyone but she is still alone.i need this to happen.may 19th i'm going to her and if the answer is no.then i'll see if there's a god because that will be my end.rob c
2007-04-23 11:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by Rob C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Rob,
Please don't let your belief in God on one event. Remember, the LORD says this - if you seek Him (with your whole heart), you will find him.
God does not grant us the wishes of our hearts. But He'll be there for us in any storm - He wants to be there for us. I hope you understand this - abandoning God is not the answer if things don't turn out right. I hope that you'll rather turn to God and seek Him in this troubling time for you and your family.
2007-04-23 12:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by TWWK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force God into a corner and make Him do as you wish. If He wants you together, He will make it happen.
Maybe He is just waiting for you, or for her, to get your hearts right with Him first. It may or may not be in your best interest to be together with her. God knows the beginning and end of all things, He knows whats best. You say your children deserve a whole family, yet you say you will kill yourself if this doesn't happen on the 19th. When you stop trying to control God with your attitude, perhaps the answers would come sooner. Your wife may have left you, but God never will.
God Bless You....Peace.
2007-04-23 14:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't believe in God because he hasn't given you what you want? He knows what is right for you in the big picture. If you stay in constant prayer, He will reveal Himself to you. The Creator of all living things for all past and eternity should not validated by you simply based on whether or not your wife comes back.
2007-04-23 12:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rob you have control of you why hand control to someone else(your wife). You your child and God are a majority. There are many other worthy women out there. May you seek Gods will in this, he can help.
2007-04-23 12:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by j.wisdom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't work that way. He isn't Santa Clause. He gives you what is best for you in His time, not yours.
I will pray today, tomorrow and beyond May 19th, that God's will be done in your life and the lives of your family.
2007-04-23 12:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that maybe God doesnt want you with her. I agree that they deserve a whole family. But if they have God, they will have a whole family! I will pray for you, and that you will realize that God does things for a purpose!
2007-04-23 12:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ ☮ ☺ ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain of divorce subsides but leaves a lasting scar.
So does the loss of a loved one through suicide.
Your children deserve their dad.
This is a tough one but you can work through it.
2007-04-23 15:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by NickofTyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
again, I'm sorry if you're uncomforted, but blaming God or disbelieving does no one any good. hope all works out though, but human will is human will.
2007-04-23 12:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Hey, Ray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it backwards. You are supposed to do what God wants. He is not supposed to do what you want. It is HIS will that should be done. Who do you think you are?
2007-04-23 12:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Midge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, a gastric bypass will do that every time....
2007-04-23 12:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by Desiree 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋