Ok, what type of man do you know will wait for his girlfriend for a year and a half and not have sex with nobody else? I trust him but the thing about it he went away to Job-Corps and he met this girl there and she ended up leaving 6 months after he came up there and for his birthday she brought him a fitted hat. Do you think sexual contact was involve in that.
2007-04-23 11:12:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A fitted hat can only mean one thing, especially if he is a pinhead.
2007-04-23 11:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dont know for sure if your bf had sexual contact with that women or any other women. You should have asked him about this. If you feel that all this is bothering you, you should have brought it up to him and talk about it. I dont know why you thought that he would cheat on you just because she bought him a hat for his bday. I dont think that tells he might be cheating. However, i know its possible he might be cheating on you when he's away for one and a half years because its a very long time. But that shouldnt be a problem if you guys did actually loved each other. He would stay faithful to you no matter how long or how far the distance between you two are.
You were wrong for cheating on him without finding it out if he was actually cheating on you. What if he didnt cheat on you? You should be ashamed of yourself for assumming he did something that you dont know if its true or not. Even if he may have cheat, it doesnt mean that you should cheat just to make it even, its still wrong. When you want to get with a new guy, you should have breaked up with your bf.
2007-04-23 11:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've waited 2 years, not having sex with anybody else. The fact is I found a quality woman, and I wouldn't want to lose her just for sex. I have a hand and I have will power.
How can I know if he had sexual activity with that girl? And what's the connection to your question about cheating on him?
Are you saying that because you thought he might have cheated on you, you decided it was O.K. to cheat on him?
Regardless, it sounds like you have a lot of work to do on your relationship. That work may involve letting the relationship go.
It's not that your action was "wrong", it's just that you have to be prepared for the consequences, that's all. That might mean saying goodbye to a perfectly fine individual and taking someone less desirable. Maybe.
2007-04-23 11:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I just went through a situation very similar to this. Boyfriend away for 2 weeks - kissed my ex, then pushed him away. I posted this question on here and people said don't tell, but last night, I did and while it was hard and upsetting, we're still together. I thought I could keep it from him but I just couldn't. I think honesty is the best policy. While people will tell you that it'll just make you feel better and your boyfriend worse, the fact is he has a right to know. And if you're anything like me, you will keep thinking about it and feeling horrible. Tell him.
2016-05-17 07:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm confused, what does this story have to do with you cheating on your boyfriend? And just because this girl brought your boyfriend a fitted cap for his birthday doesn't mean anything except the fact that she is his friend.
2007-04-23 11:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never Ok, my boyfriend cheated on me, I literally felt like I was dying inside, I lost nine pounds in two days, and one of the first things I thought of was going out and doing the same to him. I mean, I should have like a free pass right? No, it doesnt work that way. Cheating hurts on a level that is so intense, it can never be justified.
2007-04-23 11:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by lalablu3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Does he seem to be flirty if so then it probably happened. My wife seems to think if she is giving him a gift then he definitely did but if you cheated on him then your even. If your relationship was anything worth having then you both should be able to get over it live and learn. Your OK for doing what you did it was wrong but like I said as long as you learn from it and not cheat but break up first.
2007-04-23 11:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by mikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to figure out excuses for your bad behavior. You're a cheater. You're a very bad person and you had no business cheating on him. Now you have the disrespect to try to figure out excuses for your terrible behavior. Don't ever get involved in another relationship again and stay away from me because I don't want u either
2007-04-23 11:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should nvr cheat on someone. Nobody deserves to be hurt like that if you want to go out with someone else then break up with the person your goin out with and date the other person because obviously the person your dating can't fill your needs. Also you shouldn't do anything until you know for sure that your boyfriend cheated on you because if you find out that he didn't cheat on you and you cheated on him just for spite then your going to feel like sh*t.
2007-04-23 11:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Paige*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual contact could have been involved but two wrongs dont make a right.
2007-04-23 11:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were wrong. The hat story leaves me completely unmoved.
You sound like you're feeling guilty and want to find some justification for getting your skank on.
2007-04-23 11:14:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋