so my bf wants me to stay the night with him and we just got together last friday..is it too early
2007-04-23 10:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by cassandra o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WAY TOO EARLY. Sounds like this relationship is based upon sex. Be careful with this guy.
2007-04-23 11:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's a little too early, though I am not the one to say so. My ex stayed the night with me like 3 days after we hooked up. It was her idea, but of course I totally agreed with it. We only lasted 4 months. But they were 4 AMAZING months if ya know what I mean..haha. Wait a few months to do that. Might do some good for your relationship.
2007-04-23 10:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is way too early for anything but intatuation and lust. Maybe even 3 or 4 months would be too early. Before you do anything like that there should be a commitment made, both of you know each other rather then the "idea" of each other. Besides to get him to respect you you have to first respect yourself by not giving out to him to early, he will then respect you. If he gets upset then he isn't the one you want anything to do with.
2007-04-23 10:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable with it then you should do it. There shouldn't be time limits on what you can or can't do, just comfort levels. If you feel comfortable with it then do that. I've had women spend the night and I had just met them a few hours earlier. I don't judge them for doing it.They felt comfortable so they did. If they didn't feel that way, they wouldn't have.
2007-04-23 10:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...He is your bf and if it feels right...why question it?
My ex was the same way...I was staying at his house during the week 2-3 times..and he would stay with me on the weekends ...
2007-04-23 10:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. If you want anything to happen then it will. If you dont just spend the night with him but let him know the rules. If he starts to ***** about it say nevermind.
2007-04-23 10:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too early, wait until you have more trust and stability first.
2007-04-23 11:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by bella1290 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men wish there were more women like you.
2007-04-23 10:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesss especially if your young. wait for a few months. he might be using you
2007-04-23 10:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bruntë 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋